Survivors often face: the coercion to disappear inside someone else’s reflection. Some people weren’t looking for love.They were looking for someone
Survivors often face: the coercion to disappear inside someone else’s reflection.
Some people weren’t looking for love.
They were looking for someone to become them.
To abandon their own voice.
To live in quiet agreement.
To be a mirror—
not a person.
They didn’t want connection.
They wanted reflection.
🪞 Survivors Know This All Too Well.
So many of us have lived under the rule of people who were not content to simply be themselves.
No.
They demanded that we erase who we were,
and reflect back only what they wanted to see.
We weren’t allowed to evolve.
To question.
To say, “This doesn’t feel right.”
Because when we stopped being useful as a reflection,
we became a threat.
⚠️ This Wasn’t Just Control—It Was Colonization of the Spirit.
Instead of finding their own people—
the way all human beings must do—
they made us their tribe by force.
Through fear.
Through manipulation.
Through silencing.
Through shame.
We were made to carry their truth and deny our own.
✊🏾 But the Soul Can’t Live in Captivity.
To survive, many of us went silent.
But silence is not surrender—it’s a waiting place.
And now that we have voice again,
we speak the truth that once had to hide.
We are not vessels.
We are not mirrors.
We are not extensions of someone else’s pain or performance.
We are sovereign.
We are whole.
We are here.
And we are ourselves—without apology.
💜 This Is Why Boundaries Matter.
Boundaries say:
You may be who you are—but you do not get to rewrite who I am.
They protect our right to exist outside of someone else’s fantasy.
They shield us from being erased in the name of “love.”
They restore the sacred truth:
We were never created to be mirrors.
We were created to be light.
