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🔥 Here’s How to Deal with Someone Who Always Chooses to Be Hurt June 17, 2025
When someone in your life always chooses to have hurt feelings, especially over things that aren’t intended to be hurtful, it can feel like walking through a minefield barefoot. You’re always cautious, always adjusting, but never quite safe from their reaction. Let’s be honest: there’s a difference between being emotionally sensitive and weaponizing hurt feelings […]
✂️ Unlearning the Lie: When “Being a Good Person” Means Upholding Harm June 17, 2025
Some of us were taught that being a “good person” meant keeping quiet.Smoothing things over.Soften the blow.Protect their reputation.Look the other way.Pretend you didn’t hear what you heard.Didn’t see what you saw. We were taught that being a “good person” means: Upholding the lies of those who harm others Softening the language around abuse, betrayal, […]
⚠️ Sometimes Male Agitation Is Not Just a “Bad Mood” June 17, 2025
It Can Be a Ramp-Up to Violence. Especially Against the Vulnerable. Too often, male agitation is brushed off.He’s “just stressed.”He’s “had a rough day.”“He didn’t mean it like that.” But let’s tell the truth: Male agitation—especially in someone already showing signs of emotional instability—is not something to ignore.It can be a red flag for escalating […]