WE HEALING
Let’s speak truth—because Survivors on healthy authentic healing journeys know this better than anyone:
You cannot build healthy relationships with p [...]
It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.Frederick Douglass I am a fan of Jamyle Cannon's explanation of bound [...]
Self-doubt. I think that one reason that some people can't understand sexual violence is they don't understand just how complicated it really is [...]
In many cultures, including those in the North American west, women and girls are conditioned to minimize their own importance. This does [...]
The trial against music mogul Sean Combs is not just about one man’s alleged abuse—it is about the systems that allowed it to persist for decades. O [...]
Umoja is a Kiswahili word that means "unity"Your beliefs—whether they come from religion, personal values, or life experiences—are yours. Th [...]
Healing Journey: 6 Elements of Learning to Trust Yourself | WE Survive AbuseIn the Hands of Survivors, Self-Compassion Can Be a Beacon of Streng [...]
Grooming is a word we hear often, but too many people still misunderstand what it truly means. That misunderstanding can lead to silence, shame, and [...]
HEALING AND AFFIRMATIONS

Affirmation: I Am My Own Unique Self-Special, Creative, and Wonderful
updated for 2025
✨ Affirmation: I Am My Own Unique Self
I am my own unique self—special, creative, and wonderful.No one in the entire universe i [...]
Consent Is Not an Afterthought. It Is the First Requirement
from WeSurviveAbuse.com
Let’s make this plain:Consent is not a footnote.It is not a favor.It is not a vibe, a guess, or something you assume after yo [...]

Reflecting on Our Collective Failure to Listen to the Fears of Women and Girls
As more truths about misogyny, sexism, safety, and safeguarding come to light; we need to keep talking, keep writing and keep speaking. (I [...]

Safe Spaces for Women: 6500 Hospital Assaults in Four Years
Reminder, sex-based sanctuaries in healing spaces remain a necessity for women and girls. There is a reason that women are being pushed to give [...]
They Just Know: How Abusers Play by the Same Rules
There’s no secret clubhouse.No annual meeting.No formal initiation or online group chat.
And yet—somehow—they just know.
They know what to say.They [...]
AFFIRMATIONS AND SELF LOVE
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BLAME THE ABUSER FOR FAILING TO BE HUMANE NOT THE HUMAN BEING TRYING TO SURVIVE IT.

HERSTORY/HISTORY
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"The only constant in life is change."-Heraclitus"No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's no [...]
In this world where misogyny and sexism runs rampant, even fellow women may need continued education on simply listening to the concerns of [...]
We live in a world where speaking out against violence—especially violence against women and children—should be a righteous act. A protect [...]
You were never too much.You were too awake.
You noticed what others pretended not to see.You named what others stayed quiet about.You ask [...]
Sex-based oppression is not confined to a single culture, continent, or community. It is a global reality—a multi-layered system of inequa [...]
So many rush to say:“I told her.”“She didn’t listen.”“She should’ve known better.”But this isn’t the moment to center your predi [...]
I try to monitor the amount of negativity I take in per day. So it took me a few days to hear that it was Colorado GOP Representative [...]
VIOLATIONS AGAINST SAFETY AND WELL-BEING
VIOLATIONS

She Didn’t Stay Because She Didn’t Know. She Stayed Because She Did.
People assume she stayed because she didn’t know.
Didn’t know her worth.Didn’t know what he was doing to her.Didn’t know what love is supposed to look like.
But that’s not the truth.
[...]

Fave Podcast Episodes: Trafficking Documentary Director Alison Jayne Wilson with Neil Getzlow
Episode 79: Unmasking the journey of Alison Jayne Wilson and EXITUnmasked With Neil GetzlowToday, I'm excited to share my interview with filmmaker Alison Jayne Wilson. Alison is dir [...]

Serial Killer Harvey Marcelin Serving Time in Women’s Prison
From X platform, Co-Founder of Reduxx, Genevieve Gluck Harvey Marcelin, a transgender serial killer who identifies as a lesbian and is currently in a women's prison at Rik [...]
Rosa Ingram’s Unyielding Courage: How Her Family’s Struggle for Justice Changed History
Rosa Ingram and her two sons, Haywood and George, became central figures in the struggle for justice during the Civil Rights Movement. Their story is powerful, heartbreaking, [...]
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The Fearless Female: Embracing Self-Belief (ebook)
A beautiful little girl informed me that my first cover choice was "uuggggly". 👀So, let's try this again. 💞Empower Your Daughter: A Quick Reference Guide to Raising a Confident [...]
Women’s Right to Choose: The Fight Isn’t Over
"If it tries to diminish me, my health,
my safety,
my ascendance,
or my rights,
it is unacceptable, to me."
Tonya GJ Prince
Unhindered femal [...]

🔥 The Price of Loyalty to the Lie
Some silence isn’t ignorance. It’s allegiance.
There are women who didn’t know.There are women who didn’t see.There are women who were misled, manipulated, used.
But then—There are wome [...]

The Global Attack on the Voices of Female Human Beings: Afghan
Terrifying. Horrific. Inhumane.We live on this planet at the same time as women and girls in Afghanistan.No need to catch folks up on days that happened long before they existed.WE [...]
You Didn’t Just Stay Silent—You Helped Silence Others
When people are finally exposed for being abusive, manipulative, or harmful, we often hear the same tired phrase:“Well… they had us all fooled.”No. Let's keep it real.It was b [...]
They Can’t Always Find the Right Words. But They Still Deserve to Be Heard.
Sometimes Survivors speak in whispers.Sometimes in long pauses, in shaking hands, in misplaced laughter.Sometimes… not at all.
But let me tell you something that experience and sacred wi [...]

The Lost Secret of Child Sexual Abuse: I Love a Survivor, My Pain Has a Voice Too
ImagineImagine your loved one was a victim of child sexual violence. You wanted to help. You wanted to take action. You wanted family, community, and society to rally around [...]
💔 They’ve Been Ignoring Our Pain for Generations. But We Still Feel It.
On yesterday there was a non-subtle outcry on at least one social media application calling for Black people to go to Los Angeles, California and get involved in the conflict between IC [...]
🛑 We don’t negotiate safety
⚖️ Some Things Are Black and White
Yes means safety.No means protection.
Clear, certain, unapologetic boundaries are not cruelty.They are care—especially for the vulnerable.
In a world [...]
When Words Are Used to Control You: Everyday Red Flags People Miss
✦ by WeSurviveAbuse.com
Not all control looks like yelling, threats, or bruises.Sometimes, it shows up in the words you're allowed to use—or forbidden to say.Sometimes, it hides in tone [...]

Henrietta Lacks and Others Too: Misogyny in Medicine
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From Diana Shaw: Why I Left
pexels.comI read this in my perpetually overflowing email box this morning. It felt like I had picked up one of my notebooks I "found" again. The work to maintain a [...]
Grief That Echoes: Honoring the Women Amiri Baraka Lost to Violence
There are wounds that don’t stop bleeding just because the headlines fade.There are names that deserve to be spoken with reverence—not only in tragedy, but in truth.
We know Amiri Bara [...]

If WE Want to End Rape, We Must Center Victims
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Reclaiming Your Power: Recognizing & Addressing the Loss of Personal Autonomy
History shows us that the loss of personal autonomy—our ability to make
choices and live freely—has often been weaponized against women. During times
of war, women’s bodies have been trea [...]
Healing When Your Abuser Is Still Welcome at the Table
The betrayal no one wants to talk about—but every Survivor remembers.There’s a kind of betrayal that lives in the silence.In the sideways glances.In the excuses.In the celebration [...]
🧱 You Don’t Have to Build the House to Set the Fire:
The Truth About Harm Within Oppressive Systems
Some people argue:“I didn’t build the system. So I can’t be responsible for the harm it causes.”
Because our unique position in society— [...]
📣 A Hard Truth: You Do Not Have to Play the Role They Assigned You
Let’s begin here:You are not required to play a role in someone else’s story just because they’ve written you into it.Not as the forgiving one.Not as the supportive and understanding woma [...]
It Wasn’t Rejection. It Was Redirection to Your Own Power
There was a time when you stayed in places that dimmed you.In love that drained you.In conversations where your truth had to whisper.In relationships where you had to be smaller to be t [...]

Survivor Affirmation: I Am My Own Best Cheerleader
Updated for 2025
I stand with myself in all seasons.When no one else claps, I still rise. I speak life over myself—daily, intentionally, and without apology.
I praise my growt [...]

Heads Up: Lying Is a Powerful Abuse Tactic
Abusers don’t just harm; they manipulate reality itself. Lies are a tool used to maintain control, to confuse, and to isolate victims. If nothing is true then everything is possible. [...]

🕊️ We Will Always Choose the Child: Culture Cannot Justify Harm
In the United States, there has always been a clash between cultural beliefs and the safety of the child. We just happen to be diverse like that.
Some call it tradition. Some call it [...]
Perpetrator Fragility: When He Fears Exposure More Than Reflection
Perpetrator fragility is a concept used to describe how individuals—most often abusers or those in power—respond with defensiveness, victim-playing, or aggression when they are confronted [...]

The Whispers That Steal Your Sanity: Understanding and Fighting Back Against Gaslighting
Let's be honest, the word "gaslighting" gets thrown around a lot these days. But for those of us who've lived it, it's not a trendy buzzword; it's real. It's the insidious erosion of [...]

🔊 The Right to Speak: What a Difference a Voice Makes
Updated for 2025Silence
“You have the right to remain silent.”
I first heard that phrase in my 8th grade Civics class during the lesson on Miranda rights.A great lesson. Important e [...]

THIS is The TRUTH About Dating Preferences & Inclusion
@thisissavvy ♬ original sound - Sav! @tgjprince We Are ALL Entitled to Our Unique Dating Preferences ♬ original sound - TGJPrinceWhen a Man Gets It @the.consciou [...]

Black women in London facing ‘crisis’ as higher femicide rates revealed
The figures have been obtained by the PA news agency from the Metropolitan Police in a Freedom of Information request. They show: Of the 21 femi [...]
🚨 Pregnancy Shouldn’t Be a Death Sentence
Let’s tell the truth—pregnancy should never be a death sentence.
But in the United States, the leading cause of death for pregnant and postpartum women isn’t a medical condition—it’s h [...]

In the Hands of Survivors, Self-Compassion Can Be a Beacon of Strength
Self-compassion can emerge as a beacon of strength for survivors of abuse and violence.
Despite what others who do not know any better say, self-compassion is not about self-pity. [...]
❌ If You Can’t Speak Your Truth Without Losing Love, You’re Not in a Relationship—You’re Under Rule
There are relationships that look like love on the outside.They may even feel like love—sometimes.
But if your ability to tell the truth threatens your safety, your sense of peace, or [...]

Sexual Assaults at American Festivals: The 2000 Puerto Rican Parade
For many years, the Puerto Rican Parade has been a symbol of pride and celebration. Every year, thousands of people march through the streets of New York City, adorned in brig [...]

Mirror Reflections: How What We Don't Know About Suicide is Killing People
From 7/1/2015According to the CDC: In 2013 (the most recent year for which full data are available), 41,149 suicides were reported, making suicide the 10th leading cause of de [...]
The Hidden Truth: Media Silence on Male Violence Against Women and Girls
image credit: weaveinc.org (💜) She is not a sex worker, she’s a victim of sex trafficking. The two are not interchangeable or synonymous. https://t.co/4tXow58DcY— Yasmeen Ghau [...]

No, You’re Not Colorist Just for Disliking a Dark-Skinned Black Woman Artist—But Let’s Talk About How You Express It
Let’s be real for a moment. You are not automatically colorist for disliking a dark-skinned Black woman artist. We all have tastes, preferences, and different values when it comes to musi [...]

What “Diversity & Inclusion” Does Not Include (video)
Diversity and inclusion was never meant to include removing women's rights and making sexual violence lawful. We JUST Won the Rights for Women in the 1970s: Notes on Dating Choices | [...]

Revisting the Silencing of Silenced Women and Girls: R Kelly
When the groundbreaking documentary Surviving RKelly (produced by Dream Hampton) came out, people were amazed.
How did this go on in front of everyone's eyes for 20?! [...]

Naming the Chains: Understanding Misogyny, Gynophobia, Sexism, and Patriarchy
These systems and beliefs shape how society treats women and girls, often reinforcing oppression, inequality, and violence. While they overlap, each has distinct characteristics.1. Mi [...]
You Were Always Worth Loving—They Just Weren’t Capable of Giving It
There are people who will make you question everything good about yourselfbecause they were never capable of loving you well.
And yet—you tried.You gave.You waited.You overextended.You [...]

Boundaries Are Sacred: Honoring the Line Between Survival and Self-Betrayal
Boundaries aren’t walls.They’re doors you open for love — and shut to harm.
For too long, women, especially Black women, have been praised for how much we can endure.How much we can carr [...]

Scratches as Self-Defense in Domestic Violence Cases
.....When I asked *Mika whether she had called the police before she told me that she was afraid to."When he went to the mirror and ran up to me to show me each scratch, every single one, [...]
Healing Changed Me—And Some People Only Loved the Version of Me Who Didn’t Know Her Worth
A post for the Survivor who’s outgrowing relationships built on their silence, sacrifice, and self-erasure
There’s a version of you they liked better.
The one who didn’t speak up.The [...]
Unlearning Loyalty to Those Who Ask You to Lie
“Power borrowed from fear never lasts"
There comes a time when your soul grows too heavy to carry the weight of someone else's lies.
At first, it felt like loyalty.Like love.Like du [...]

The BIG Boundaries Issue for Survivors
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Violence Against Women: Black Women Interventions & Courage
Sometimes discussions with others outside of the Black community, especially around racism, quickly travel to a classic defense tactic: "Well why don't Black women do the work [...]
Your Healing Threatens the People Who Benefited From Your Wounds
Not everyone wants to see you healed.Some people were only comfortable when you were quiet, unsure, still bleeding.
Your pain made you easier to control.Your guilt made you easier to c [...]

30 Red Flags of Unsafe People: How to Spot Them Early
Some people are simply unsafe. Whether in personal relationships, workplaces, social settings, movements, politics, or online spaces, unsafe individuals use manipulation, deception, and [...]
📍 Across Borders, Beneath Systems: The Global Face of Sex-Based Oppression
Sex-based oppression is not confined to a single culture, continent, or community. It is a global reality—a multi-layered system of inequality rooted in how societies view, value, and c [...]

FAQ About Trauma, Abuse, & Violence with Gary Jones LCSW (audio)
FAQ About Trauma, Abuse, and Violence With GaryJones LCSW [...]
We Must Unlearn the Misplaced Blame We Inherited
I am a Black woman.I was raised as a Black woman in the United States of America.Raised to be strong, to be smart, to see danger from around the corner.Raised not to cry in front of y'a [...]

A Must Read: Bishop Eddie Long Is Not the Only One Who’s Dead
You may not be aware, but there is a resistance being waged by a certain segment of the Survivor community. It began the moment that rumors leaked that Bishop Eddie Long was dead. For tho [...]
Politicians Must Stop Dismissing Us: Women’s Safety is Non-Negotiable
Political leaders must prioritize protecting those rights that women need independently of men.
Abortion rights, often debated fiercely, are fundamentally connected to relationships wi [...]
Access + Entitlement = Danger: What’s Really Putting Black Women and Girls at Risk
There’s a dangerous math we don’t talk about enough:
Access + Entitlement = Vulnerability to Violence.
And Black women and Black girls?We are on the frontlines of that equation every si [...]
I’m Not Angry at Other Women — I’m Committed to the Whole Truth
I'm not angry at other women.Not even the ones who shame, silence, or mock.Not even the ones who call truth-telling "too much," "too angry," or "too divisive."
I understand the fear.I un [...]

There Are No Magic Words That Grant Access to Our Boundaries
There are no magic words.
No title, no role, no identity, no costume, no tone of voice, no declaration of who you claim to be—
grants you automatic access to our bodies, our spaces, or [...]
HERStory: About Alice Beatrice Jones
When her white husband requested an annulment due to alleged fraud, Alice was persuaded by the judge and her lawyer to show her breasts to the 12 white men on the jury in open court [...]

Diversity Is Not the Magic—The Work Is
We don’t automatically grow just because we’re more diverse.🌱 Diversity is not the finish line. It’s the starting bell.
We grow when we choose to rise to that diversity—when we do the [...]

Catching Up On Some Reads (Great Books)
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Unloving the People We’re Told to Never Give Up On
“But That’s Your Family…”
There’s a sacred pain that often goes unnamed.The kind of pain that comes from realizing that someone you are related to has broken your heart—not through mis [...]
When Black Women Say No: The Punishment Is Public
"If I can’t have her love, I’ll go to war against her peace"
Some men don’t just move on when Black women say no.They retaliate.
They don’t just go date someone else.They craft a narr [...]
Violence Against Women Always Looks for an Inside Woman
Like most acts of violence against women,invasion of boundaries doesn’t just show up with brute force.It counts on betrayal.It counts on a hand extended, not in sisterhood, but in sabotag [...]

How Society Continues to Enable Abuse and Violation of Women and Girls in Sports
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Black Woman, Begin With You
They taught us to pour and pour and pour.To give ‘til we vanish.
But Sis, your best love—your warmest care, your fiercest protection, your most nourishing "yes"—was never meant to be a [...]
HEALTH
Here is when I knew.
I was riding in the car with my date. Our first date.
He picked me up.
He brought me a single gorgeous rose.
He was [...]
VIOLATIONS AGAINST YOUTH
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Raising Our Brave Kids!
Child-centered news round-up including affirmations for parents.And remember, June is also, Indi [...]
Male Access Supremacy: When Entitlement Disguises Itself as Equality
There is a belief too many refuse to name—because to name it would reveal the lie.
It is the belief t [...]
“I Told Her” Is About You—Not the Victim
Let’s talk about it.
When a woman is harmed—physically, emotionally, spiritually—one of the most co [...]

Fave Podcast Episodes: Trafficking Documentary Director Alison Jayne Wilson with Neil Getzlow
Episode 79: Unmasking the journey of Alison Jayne Wilson and EXITUnmasked With Neil GetzlowToday [...]
When Violence Enters the Home, Children Bleed Too—Even Without a Bruise.
Let’s stop pretending.
Let’s stop pretending that domestic violence is something that only happens [...]

At the Intersection of Surviving and Healing Racial Trauma
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When Silence is Taught, Suffering is Inherited: How Childhood Conditioning Sets the Stage for Abuse
Some lessons aren’t written in books.Some are taught in the hush of a disappointed glance, a side eye [...]

Getting Harder for Women Today: Know Your Manipulators
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How My Pastor Showed Me the Power of the Pulpit to End Violence and Abuse (audio)
The Eye of the Child Sexual Abuse Survivor: A Black Man Takes the Mic | WE Survive AbuseThe Bl [...]
10 Truths About Grooming: What It Is and What It Is Not
Grooming is a word we hear often, but too many people still misunderstand what it truly means. That [...]
Hold Leaders Accountable When They Fail to Keep Women and Children Safe (w/our list of ally organizations)
Males (and all their backup singers threatening & bullying women who dare to assert our rights &am [...]
This Never Happens: Happens Again
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Braid the Ladder: Beautiful Non-Conforming Black Hair
By the way, unity does not come from everyone being the same. That is forced conformit [...]
💣 In Just One Second: 12 Ways People Tell You They’re Pro-Abuser
(And Maybe Capable of Abuse Themselves)
Sometimes it doesn’t take a full conversation.Sometimes it [...]

Which Male Organizations Center or Highlight the Issues of Trans Men?
Women's organizations such as UN Women make it a practice to center the issues that impact trans [...]
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Scouts Honor: The Secret Files of Boy Scouts of America is on Netflix
This is another MUST-SEE!From this storytelling perspective we can see: Avoidance & dis [...]

How Climate Change is Making the Violence Against Women Epidemic Worse
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6 Ways Asking for Help Enriches Your Life
I realize that in our society, it is almost fashionable to come down on someone in need. Unfortu [...]

Her Name Is Mary Turner. Her Story Still Speaks.
We can’t have an honest conversation about why our grandmothers—and their mothers before them—often pr [...]

Green Flag: Safe Adult Males Stay Out of Female Spaces and Advocate for It
Miss us entirely with all of your hurdles for women to clear demonstrating that we can "be kind" in a [...]
Our Safety Isn’t a Punchline: Standing Strong Against Ridicule
Women’s safety isn’t a joke. Ain't a damn thing "funny" about it.Yet, whenever we gather the c [...]

How What We Don't Know About Suicide is Killing People
According to the CDC: In 2013 (the most recent year for which full data are available), 41 [...]

How Women Can Support Gay Men In Their Lives in Abusive Relationships
Abuse doesn’t care about gender or sexuality. It happens in all kinds of relationships—straight, gay, [...]
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Erin Justice: The Worst That Could Happen
Women and girls do not always survive rape.
Erin Justice was a teen being jointly rai [...]

To the Misguided, Misdirected, Mislead, and Misinformed, about Child Sexual Abuse
Back in 2016 this post was inspired when a very famous celebrity publicly blamed how young girls dress [...]

People With Opinions Like Lauren Boebert Are the Reason We Need to Pass the Crown Act
I try to monitor the amount of negativity I take in per day. So it took me a few days to hear th [...]

The BIG Boundaries Issue for Survivors
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11 Reasons Taking from Girls to Give to Boys is Not Supportive of Equality and Fairness for Girls (infographic) (updated w/audio)
Two children are playing.One boy. One girl.The girl is playing with a toy that the boy wants.The [...]
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Girls Will Never Run the World If They Are Not Safe
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Sherrice Iverson: The Deadly Danger of Deprioritizing the Safety of Girls
On 5/28/23 I posted about one of the worst murder cases seen in Nevada casino history. The murde [...]

When Deception Increases Risk for Children
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Coercion: Women and Girls Do Not Owe You Access to Them
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Why Safeguarding Bathrooms is No Laughing Matter for Women and Girls
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So When Are You Going Call Out This Violence?
This is standard commentary from these protestors here. It is never about "unity" or "love" or "so [...]
✊🏾 Women Deserve Safety Without Apology
It is not hateful to name a reality:The same laws that allow trans-identified males to enter women’s [...]
Consent Is Not an Afterthought. It Is the First Requirement
from WeSurviveAbuse.com
Let’s make this plain:Consent is not a footnote.It is not a favor.It is not a [...]
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On the Grounds That We Are Human: Women and Girls Have a Human RIGHT to Dignity and Safety
A few years ago I was shopping in a grocery store when I noticed a spot on the back of another w [...]
Boundaries Aren’t Just Personal—They’re Political
Boundaries are powerful. They protect us, define us, and give us the space to grow. But what happens [...]
Respect Is Supposed to Be Mutual—But Women Know Better
Respect is supposed to be mutual.But you wouldn’t know that if you listened to today’s men speak.
Som [...]
Unlearning Loyalty to Those Who Ask You to Lie
“Power borrowed from fear never lasts"
There comes a time when your soul grows too heavy to carry [...]

Imagine If We Told Men to “Be Kind” as Often as We Tell Women
You can absolutely tell who is male and who is female. Men have been raging at NataleeBFitness all w [...]

What Can We Learn From Alabama Mayor’s Death That Allegedly Reveals More Victims (Update)
First, my prayers for comfort and healing go out to the family of Smiths Station Mayor F.L. “Bubb [...]
✊🏾 First, We Fight for Our Safety.
Then, We Fight for Our Story.(And We Are Tired.)
She survived.That should be enough.But it never is.
[...]

12 Burdens Growing Up In Dysfunctional Families Teaches You to Accept-and Why We Must Reject Them
In dysfunctional families and abusive relationships, women are often asked—no, expected—to t [...]
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BOOKS AND RESOURCES

15 I Am Fearless Affirmations Set
Unleash the power of positivity and self-empowerment [...]

How to Get the Truth Around Obstacles of Myths, Lies, & Distraction: Infographics
Let Me Tell ItI once worked as the sexual assault Out [...]

Internet Marketing for Stay-At-Home Moms
Internet Marketing for Stay-At-Home Moms There a [...]

10 Excellent Memoirs about the Sexual Violence Survivor's Journey
Glad to see that we are in a season of listening to t [...]

Speaking Truth for Girls in a World that Prefers Silence (audio)
Welcome to We Survive Abuse—a powerful, unapologetic [...]

Women Taint Nobody's Business Who You Choose to Love (audio)
Women Tain't Nobody's Business Who You Choose T [...]
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Your Ultimate Youtube Content Creator Success Bundle
Perhaps this weekend, as you ponder how you will spen [...]

The Black Church is Called to Be Courageous Against Misogynists (audio version included)
LISTEN HEREBlack women also experience significantl [...]

The Power of Unapologetic Truth: Fannie Lou Hamer and Zora Neale Hurston (audio/podcast)
In this episode of We Survive Abuse, we explore [...]
When Survivors See Through Lies, We Refuse to Pretend (audio/podcast)
In her career, Tonya GJ Prince has had the [...]
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Believing Everyone Plays Fair? Here’s How It Backfires (Infographic)
Believing everyone respects boundaries is a hop [...]

Fear is a Gift: Quotes from Gavin de Becker (updated with podcast link)
Listen to this blog [...]

Never Go Back: Break-Up Safety Tips for Abused Partners (Infographic)
Speaking of never going back.....Brea [...]

Women Should Try Being Kind to Other Women Too
“There is a special place in hell for women who [...]

Indications of Low Self-Awareness (Infographic)
Low Self Awareness Tonya GJ Prince by [...]

Can White Women Deny Black Women Womanhood? (audio)
Womanhood is about character, lessons, wisdom, [...]

The Role of Homeownership in Women’s Liberation: Domestic Violence and Homelessness (podcast/audio)
In this episode, explore the critical inter [...]

How My Pastor Showed Me the Power of the Pulpit to End Violence and Abuse (audio)
The Eye of the Child Sexual Abuse Survivor: A [...]

By the Power of Self-Protection (podcast/audio)
In a world that often tells women to shrink, to pleas [...]

Gaslighting and Red Flags: Black Women & Girls and Safety
We will never get another you. Please keep yourself s [...]
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Big Mama Thornton: I Stand Up for Myself For As Long As I Can
Big Mama Thornton, who originally recorded the [...]

Favorite Books on Abuse, Rape, & Violence: Tonya GJ Prince (flipbook)
Greetings Readers, Books are a cri [...]

A Journey to Finding Our Voices Through Personal Stories (podcast/audio)
Your Survivor story has the power to heal. On this ep [...]

New Read: The Handbook of Research on Trauma with Children, Working with High Poverty Schools and Communities
LINK@supreme.neck.protector #Trauma #Yo [...]

How to Start Talking to Young Children about Sexual Abuse
My whole world shifted. As always, it was the fault o [...]

What’s the Big Deal about Sex Tourism? (Infographic)
The women behind the windows [...]

Medical Sexism and Misogyny: The Harm in “Assigned Female at Birth”
Often used in medical and social contexts, this phras [...]

Even Pain Has a Purpose: A Call to Men Who Have Lost Women They Love to Male Violence
The Transformative Power of PainMen, your pain [...]

How Survivors Find Their Voices and Help Others: Shanika Sealy
Survivors of oppression and/or violence are the most [...]

Books for Survivors: Amy Tan and Cathy L. Patrenos
Healing and Change: The Ultimate Fall 2023 Book Lover [...]

Give Me 5 Minutes: What is a Toxic Relationship? (audio)
Give Me 5 Minutes: What is a Toxic Relationship? (aud [...]

Girls Do Not Owe Anyone Sexual Reparations (audio)
Girls Do Not Owe Anyone Sexual Reparations (audi [...]
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Listening to Older Women to Gain Master Survival Tips (audio)
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Survivor Affirmations: I Live an Authentic Life, Lessons from Big Mama Thornton (podcast episode)
In this compelling episode of the We Survive Ab [...]

The Magic Trick: How Grooming Feels in the Beginning
They welcome you in with warmth, with open arms [...]

The Art of Reflective Thinking in 8 Steps (with infographic)
I saw a woman share her very personal relationship st [...]

Enhance YOU! 52 Ways to Keep Rising Through Chaos and Change (mini download)
Creating Peace Within Yourself in the Midst of [...]
Naming Ourselves: The Right of Women to Define Our Power and Purpose (audio/Podcast)
In this episode of the We Sur [...]

Healing and Change: The Ultimate Fall 2023 Book Lover’s List
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The Lessons: Women Disabled Through Domestic Violence (audio)
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These Skilled Silencers Are Good At Keeping People Quiet (infographic) UPDATED
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How Vision Boards Help Survivors Reclaim Their Future
For Survivors of trauma, the journey to healing isn’t just about moving on—it’s about reclaiming, redefining, and rebuilding. One powerf [...]
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Your Ultimate Youtube Content Creator Success Bundle
Perhaps this weekend, as you ponder how you will spend your next few months, you may want to gather information about Youtube video creation.  [...]

Be Well: 25 Creative Outlets for Your Wellbeing (FREE flipbook)
20 Youtube Video Ideas for Introverts (Product) | WE Survive Abuse7 Days of Journal Prompts and Affirmations (FREE download) | WE Survive [...]

Internet Marketing for Stay-At-Home Moms
Internet Marketing for Stay-At-Home Moms There are many stay at homes moms that dream of making extra money from home while they are taking c [...]

Stay Safe in Uncertain Times: The Top 10 Benefits of a Crisis Safety Plan You Can’t Afford to Ignore (FREE Plan Download)
Safety Plan Crisis WorksheetsWriting down and reflecting on a crisis safety plan can have several benefits1. Clarity and organization: Writi [...]

20 Youtube Video Ideas for Introverts (Product)
20 Youtube Video Ideas for Introverts20 YouTube Video Ideas For Introverts eBookAre you an introvert struggling to start making videos on Yo [...]
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The Healing Space: A Guidebook for Women Rising in Their Power After Abuse
LINK"The Healing Space You Deserve: A Guidebook for Women Rising in Their Power After Abuse"***Includes BONUS 45 Page PTSD Journal and Workb [...]

Gaslighting and Red Flags: Black Women & Girls and Safety
We will never get another you. Please keep yourself safe!-TGJP “Do not ever apologise for existing or for taking up space in the world.”— Chi [...]

15 I Am Fearless Affirmations Set
Unleash the power of positivity and self-empowerment with our editable PowerPoint on 15 Fearless Affirmations. This dynamic presentation is d [...]
That Joyful Girl Journal
That Joyful Girl Journal
For the girl who still believes in wonder. And for the woman who’s learning to believe in herself again.
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My Daily Self Love Journal (printable)
My Self Love Journal (printable)
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🌿 My Self-Soothe Journal
🌿 My Self-Soothe Journal
A Sacred Space to Tend to Your Spirit, Breath by Breath
There are moments when the world feels too loud… and your ner [...]

10 Days of Self-Compassion for Stress-Relief (ebook)
Copy of 10 days_Self-Compassion Journal Prompts.pdf by Tonya GJ PrinceUnhealthy Self-Esteem vs. Self-CompassionSurvivor Affirmat [...]