Facing Reality: Identity Does Not Erase Patterns of Male Violence
updated from March 11 2025 We can respect individuals while remaining honest about patterns. Those two things are not enemies. We cannot fix what we refuse to face. And when…
updated from March 11 2025 We can respect individuals while remaining honest about patterns. Those two things are not enemies. We cannot fix what we refuse to face. And when…
Let’s talk about the girls no one gives any energy to. Protecting women does not require fearing men. It requires refusing to make women responsible for managing dangerous ones. Feminism…
Have you ever noticed that sometimes people change the rules, change the words, or act like things are different… …but somehow the same people still end up on top? That…
updated from April 18, 2025 In the end anti-black, anti-female, and all forms of discrimination are equivalent to the same thing: anti-humanism. -Shirley Chisholm …..(don’t ever let anyone tell you…
updated from June 9. 2025 It’s so tricky out here these days… Let’s make something abundantly clear: Being an ally to a group, a cause, or a community does not…
“This isn’t a big deal. We have bigger issues.” EXACTLY. The issues of women’s and girls’ safety, human rights, opportunities, and autonomy are a HUGE deal. Loss of safety and…
You have chosen to lie for a man you respect. I have chosen to tell the truth for all the women I’ve never met. ~Aja the Poet updated…
If the public tantrums around males being tested could stop, that would be great because biological tests, some extremely invasive, have always been a part of the lives of women…
updated from March 27, 2025 It is an age-old, exhausting pattern: expecting Black women to absorb the impact, soothe, cushion, and hold space for men and male biology, even at…
The warning signs are not always obvious. No one usually announces, “Women no longer deserve equal treatment.” History shows that rights are often weakened more quietly—through changes in laws, enforcement,…