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Reshona Landfair: Jane Doe in R. Kelly’s sex tape reclaims name and shares her story

Adults. Adults can either create safety or harm.  We play a hand in upholding abusers and harmers of children. A larger part than we want to admit.

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Adults. Adults can either create safety or harm. 

We play a hand in upholding abusers and harmers of children. A larger part than we want to admit. 

Not just in this case……

 

Children don’t protect themselves from danger-Reshona Landfair

She is so courageous, beautiful, and healing at the deepest layers. 

 

Sidebar: Can Jericka Duncan handle ALL of the interviews involving sexual violence from here on out? I’ve watched her previously with other sensitive topics along these lines. She is a powerhouse. She knows how to walk the line of caring about the human being she is talking with while gathering the information. A seasoned professional and human being.

 

2nd Sidebar…..for all the supporters of “not this person” language that pre-shields entire groups of people, please know that for years, R. Kelly was among that group AFTER this brave woman appeared in the tape clearly violated and raped as a minor by him. She was a child then. For years people pre-shielded this man using the trending phrases and terms of the times whenever another one of his high profile peers was accused of harmful conduct with women or children.

If you mentioned another celebrity a “flying monkey” would come zooming into your social media mentions wondering why you were overlooking a rumor about this celebrity when you “failed” to “protect” R. Kelly and others. Happens all the time. 

Jane Doe in R. Kelly’s sex tape reclaims name and shares her story

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