I speak the truth, even when it shakes the room. My refusal to accept harm is not hatred. It is sacred love. We often think of hate groups as someth
I speak the truth, even when it shakes the room.
My refusal to accept harm is not hatred. It is sacred love.
We often think of hate groups as something far away. Hidden behind hoods, hashtags, or harsh rhetoric.
But many walk among usāsuits and ties, hashtags and influencers, pulpits and podiums.
What do they have in common?
When you peel back the layers, many of them consistently harm women and children.
Hereās how to spot them:
1. They Dehumanize Women & Children
They reduce women to rolesāmothers, wives, sexual objects.
They treat children like extensions of adults instead of people with rights.
They mock or silence the pain of Survivorsāespecially Black women and girls.
2. They Want Control Over Bodies
Whether itās forced birth or forced silence, control is the goal.
They fight to limit reproductive freedom while ignoring abuse and poverty.
They fear informed girls. They fear children who know the word “no.”
3. They Erase Boundaries
They blur the lines between adult and child, safety and harm.
They dismiss the need for single-sex spaces.
They question why little girls deserve privacy and protection.
4. They Idolize the Past
They sell a fantasy of āthe good old days.ā
When men ruled. Women were obedient. And children stayed quiet.
But we remember the truth: that era left too many bruised, silenced, or buried.
5. They Blame the Vulnerable
They ask, āWhat was she wearing?ā or āWhere were the parents?ā
They protect abusersāif theyāre powerful enough.
They call Survivors āliars,ā āattention seekers,ā or ātoo sensitive.ā
6. They Hide Behind Faith & Family
They weaponize religion and tradition to control and silence.
They paint themselves as ārighteousā while protecting predators.
They frame their hate as love. But real love doesnāt require harm.
7. They Use Fear to Recruit
They spread fear: of feminism, of change, of strong girls and women.
They say they want to protect childrenābut block the people actually doing that.
They want order. Not justice. Silence. Not safety.
8. They Attack Education
They donāt want kids to learn about consent. Or history. Or truth.
They smear educators. Defund healing programs. Rewrite facts.
They know that an informed girl is a dangerous thingāto their power.
9. They Thrive Online
They share ājokesā that are really violence in disguise.
They groom boys into hate using memes, influencers, and fake masculinity.
They flood the internet with lies. And call it āfree speech.ā
10. They Exploit Race & Class
They tokenize Black voices to push anti-woman agendas.
They ignore the unique harm Black, disabled, poor, and queer children face.
They erase the truth that oppression is intersectional.
š We Know Better. And We Do Better.
These are strange times, yes. But strange is not new.
Black women, Survivors, and protectors have been here before.
We were born to stand in truth. And we will not move.
Not while women are still being blamed.
Not while children are still being groomed.
Not while predators wear halos and Survivors are made to carry shame.
We see them now.
We name them now.
And togetherāwe shut the door on their harm.
I do not confuse comfort with safety. I know the difference.
I honor the wisdom of Survivorsāspoken, whispered, or silent.
