Category: RED FLAGS

Giving Men What They Want Every Time They Ask is Not an Effective Violence Prevention Strategy
There is something missing from a great deal of our modern conversatio [...]

7 Reasons Black Women Must Know Our Worth
You see these movements getting furious with Black women for not askin [...]

Women Being Excluded from Communities: N3LYNNN and the Locs Community
Yep. Women in every corner of life are being shunned for failing to ce [...]

Women Under Watch: Films About Institutional Control of Women
Who has to report? Who needs permission? Who gets privacy? Whose feeli [...]

If You Love Us, Why Are You Fighting for the Right to Hurt Us?
Harm does not always arrive announcing itself as hatred. Sometimes it [...]

She Burned Her Writing for J.D. Salinger: Claire Douglas and the Cost of Disappearing for Love (podcast ep)
Before Claire Douglas became J.D. Salinger’s twenty-one-year-old wife, [...]

The Next Child Safety Crisis Will Not Be Solved by Taking Away the Phone
Long before anybody could type a sentence into a machine and receive a [...]

Please Stop Telling Survivors, “Men Wouldn’t Go That Far.” History Says Otherwise.
updated from March 24 2025 Interesting fact:
Before his [...]

Calling Women “Hateful” for Wanting Safety Is Abuse Dressed in Decorum
updated from June 3 2025
Let’s name this for what it is:
When poli [...]

The Modern Levittown May Have an Office Door
A door can be legally open while everyone inside is still trying to ma [...]