8 Signs You're Being Used, Not Loved

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💔 Why Didn’t I Leave Sooner? October 25, 2025
Abuse is confusing. It’s not constant — it shifts. Abusive people are not abusive all the time. That’s what makes it so complicated. When they’re not being cruel, you share real things. You laugh together. You share memories. You find common ground. You feel like maybe — just maybe — this time will be different. […]
💔 “I Was Coerced by Someone I Trusted. I Didn’t Say No. Is It Still Assault?” October 25, 2025
This is one of the most common — and most heartbreaking — questions Survivors ask. And it deserves a clear, loving, truthful answer. Yes. Coercion is assault. Let’s talk about why. 🕊️ What Is Coercion? Coercion means being pressured, manipulated, or threatened into doing something against your will.It’s when someone takes away your freedom to […]
It’s Not That They Can’t Hear You. They’ve Chosen Not To October 25, 2025
“Oppression evolves. It trades the whip for the weary.” — WeSurviveAbuse.com When people stonewall you, they aren’t just ignoring you; they’re blocking movement. That’s deliberate. So the strategy must shift from persuasion to maneuvering around obstruction. Here’s how an advocate can approach it: ⚔️ 1. Identify the Stonewall Type Not all silence is equal. For […]

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