Healing

7/7/2015 Tonight I am angry.    That isn’t my default setting though.  Usually, I smile so much that I have to consciously tell myself not to do it.  That ain’t …

Self-doubt.  I think that one reason that some people can’t understand sexual violence is they don’t understand just how complicated it really is.   Some people think that after the …

Abusers control. That’s their No. 1 tactic to keep domestic abuse survivors simultaneously afraid of them and yet reluctant to leave them. Be it controlling a survivor’s ability to go …

When you’re struggling, the world is full of people offering advice about how to “have a great day.”They say things like:“Just get over it.”As if healing were as simple as …