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🚩 When His Praise Requires Another Woman’s Demeaning: That’s Not a Compliment—That’s a Red Flag June 17, 2025
At first, you felt flattered.He spoke highly of you. Said you were different. Said you were “better” than the women of his own race. Smarter. Softer. More loyal. More attractive. More agreeable. And in a world where women are constantly fighting to be seen, heard, and respected—it felt good. At first. But here’s what’s so […]
Healing When Your Abuser Is Still Welcome at the Table June 17, 2025
The betrayal no one wants to talk about—but every Survivor remembers. There’s a kind of betrayal that lives in the silence.In the sideways glances.In the excuses.In the celebrations and dinners and holidays where the person who harmed you still gets an invitation—and you’re expected to play nice. This isn’t just family drama.It’s a pattern—and it’s […]
💔 If I’m Healing, Then Why Am I Hurting? June 16, 2025
A gentle truth for the days when healing aches more than harm ever did. We don’t talk about this part enough. The part where healing hurts. The part where, after leaving the relationship…after naming the truth…after choosing yourself…you lie in bed and wonder why your chest still aches like you’ve lost everything. You did. And […]

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