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Why Manipulators Pretend to Share Your Values (Even When They Don’t) June 22, 2025
Some people don’t believe in your mission, your healing, or your values.They just learn to sound like they do—because it gets them something. Here’s what they’re really after: 1. To Get Close Without Earning TrustThey mimic your language so you’ll let your guard down fast. 2. To Borrow Your ReputationWhen you vouch for them, others […]
Don’t Be Tricked Into Serving What Would Never Save You June 22, 2025
Avoid letting any man—no matter how soft his tone, poetic his struggle, or urgent his cause—trick you into laboring for him, defending him, uplifting himwhen he has shown he wouldn’t lift a finger for you in return. Women’s labor is valuable.It builds families, movements, communities, and empires—yet too many try to harvest it for free.Your […]
It’s Not New to Center Men—It’s Just Repackaged June 22, 2025
Males demanding that the world stop, shift, and reshape itself—laws, policies, language, protections—all so more men can be “listened to,”even if they’re dressed differently this time? That’s not radical.That’s not new.That’s the oldest story on Earth. Systems bending over backward to center male voices—whether clothed in suits, softness, or slogans—has never been revolutionary.It’s just a […]

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