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Why We Must Stop Centering Discomfort Over Male-on-Male Sexual Violence June 18, 2025
When a male accuses another male of sexual harassment or assault, what do we often hear first? “The worst part is people are going to call him gay.”“Get ready for the jokes.”“That’s so embarrassing for him.” Just like that, we lose focus. We forget there’s a Survivor in the room.We ignore the pain it took […]
🔥 Here’s How to Deal with Someone Who Always Chooses to Be Hurt June 17, 2025
When someone in your life always chooses to have hurt feelings, especially over things that aren’t intended to be hurtful, it can feel like walking through a minefield barefoot. You’re always cautious, always adjusting, but never quite safe from their reaction. Let’s be honest: there’s a difference between being emotionally sensitive and weaponizing hurt feelings […]
✂️ Unlearning the Lie: When “Being a Good Person” Means Upholding Harm June 17, 2025
Some of us were taught that being a “good person” meant keeping quiet.Smoothing things over.Soften the blow.Protect their reputation.Look the other way.Pretend you didn’t hear what you heard.Didn’t see what you saw. We were taught that being a “good person” means: Upholding the lies of those who harm others Softening the language around abuse, betrayal, […]

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