This is not about whether you think she was right or wrong.This is not about your definition of accountability.This is not about your fantasy version
This is not about whether you think she was right or wrong.
This is not about your definition of accountability.
This is not about your fantasy version of what a Survivor “should’ve” done.
You are out of your lane.
You were not there in the dark.
You didn’t feel the fear tighten her chest at 2:47 a.m.
You didn’t sit in the emergency room with a split lip and a story she was too afraid to tell.
You didn’t see how she went to work the next day like nothing happened because she had to.
So who do you think you are—
to silence her?
to shame her?
to reduce her entire life to your opinion?
You are not the judge.
You are not the jury.
And you are certainly not the one she owes anything to.
Survivors don’t need your performance of justice.
They need space.
They need support.
They need safety.
Your analysis can’t hug her when she can’t sleep.
Your “devil’s advocate” logic doesn’t protect her from the next attack.
Your obsession with “both sides” has always protected power, not people.
She spoke up anyway.
Despite the shame.
Despite the smear campaigns.
Despite the world turning her pain into a spectacle.
So take your hands off her story.
Take your scrutiny off her healing.
And get back in your lane.
We will not let you re-traumatize her for sport.
We will not let you turn justice into a circus.
We will not let you sit in judgment on someone you never helped.
She is not your debate topic.
She is a Survivor.
And she doesn’t need to be perfect to be protected.
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