"You looked fine." "I saw you on television." But what if that wasn't me?What if I wasn't on television? Maybe it was Will Smith. Or Oprah. Or Bill
“You looked fine.”
“I saw you on television.”
But what if that wasn’t me?
What if I wasn’t on television?
Maybe it was Will Smith. Or Oprah. Or Bill Cosby.
Famous. Smiling. Dressed up. Entertaining.
âïž The Lie of Representation as Reality
Imagine you’re from a people who have survived hellâ
Centuries of it.
But your fellow citizens donât know about that hell.
Theyâre not curious.
They donât want to learn.
They just saw a rerun.
A movie.
A talk show.
And what they saw was youâ
happy, wealthy, humorous, well-dressed.
You must be doing just fine.
đ Media as Misdirection
You werenât at Selma.
You werenât redlined.
You werenât stopped and frisked.
You werenât gunned down, overpoliced, underprotected, or misdiagnosed.
You wereâwhat?
Dancing in a Bel Air mansion?
Laughing at 4 p.m. on syndicated TV?
Wearing designer shoes with a high-powered mom and doctor dad?
Or waitâ
Didnât you move in with your Aunt and Uncle in Bel Air?
They canât keep up.
But thatâs okay.
Youâre funny. Youâre cool.
You make them feel good.
đ§ The Real Cost of the âFeel-Good Black Friendâ Narrative
When people confuse entertainment visibility with equality,
when laughter becomes a substitute for justice,
when sitcoms become history lessons for people who refuse to open a bookâ
we are in danger.
This is how people convince themselves racism is over.
Because their favorite Black character didnât seem angry.
Didnât cry on-screen.
Didnât bleed.
đ§š Myth: âIf I See You on Screen, You Must Be Free.â
đ Truth: Visibility is not safety.
đ Truth: Representation is not reparation.
đ Truth: Watching us isn’t the same as knowing us.
đ Truth: A few faces on screen donât free the millions still locked in struggle.
âđŸ Donât Confuse the Highlight Reel with the Whole Story
We are not just who you see when you turn on the TV.
We are who you ignored when you turned it off.
We are still here. Still fighting. Still healing. Still telling the truth.
So noâ
That wasnât me you saw on television.
But this voice? These words? This truth?
This is me.
đ§ bell hooks
âThe commodification of Blackness by white folks in power has been about making it safe and acceptableâentertaining evenâas they donât have to deal with the rage, the terror of Black life.â
Black Looks: Race and Representation (1992)