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10 Future Faking Abuse Statements “I’m going to get help—just give me a little more time.”Used to delay accountability and stop the Survivor from leaving. “Let’s have a baby… that’ll bring us closer together.”A way to bind the Survivor more tightly to the abuser through pregnancy or parenting. “Next year, I’ll finally take you on […]
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Let’s talk about something a lot of Survivors don’t even know has a name—but once you see it, you can’t unsee it. It’s called future faking.And it’s one of the softest-sounding, most soul-draining manipulation tactics out there. 💭 What Is Future Faking? It’s when someone—often someone you love or trust—makes big, beautiful promises about the […]
💣 Beauty as a Battlefield: When We Compete, They Win June 20, 2025
Let’s tell the truth:This world wants women to be at war with each other. Not over justice.Not over safety.But over aesthetics. It’s no accident that we’re pitted against one another: Dark skin vs light Natural vs relaxed Big body vs small Loud vs quiet Modest vs sexy Young vs aging These are not just beauty […]

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