Self Love

One side wants women to go back. The other has people telling women to move over. And somewhere in the middle, women are asking a perfectly reasonable question: When do …

Women spent generations fighting to get out of boxes. Now we’re supposed to celebrate somebody handing us a new set of instructions? Well, hold on a minute. Because I remember …

updated from January 2026 There was a time when being outside was practically a second education. I grew up in that generation. The one that makes young people watching Stranger …

I remember when we started having more conversations about why Black women needed to be named specifically instead of always being grouped under women of color. Now, there is nothing …

There has always been somebody ready to tell women how to be women. And isn’t it something how often those instructions have come from people who weren’t the least bit …

“Society falls when older persons don’t plant trees they will never sit under”  Remember when people used to joke that young women went to college to earn their “MRS. degree”? …

Somebody asks where you want to eat, and your mind goes straight to what everybody else will enjoy. You know who dislikes spicy food. You remember who complained about the …

You hear your own voice getting firm and immediately wonder whether you have become cruel. Perhaps someone crossed a boundary. Perhaps you have explained the same problem six times. Yet …

Back in 1993, a young wife named Lorena Bobbitt severed her husband’s male part. When Lorena went on trial, she had to disclose something she did not want to share. …

You can tell someone that you had a painful childhood without handing them the whole house key. Some people hear a small disclosure and immediately begin opening doors. Who was …