They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access. They call it justice.But only when women are asked to surrender boundaries. They call
They call it compassion.
But only when it protects male access.
They call it justice.
But only when women are asked to surrender boundaries.
They call it hate,
when women say no with their whole chest
and mean it.
But where are these loud voices when girls in shelters are silenced?
Where are they when disabled children are hidden from sight,
and systems forget them because their pain doesn’t trend?
Where are they when bombs fall on the homes of women
who’ve already buried too many sons,
too many sisters,
too many dreams?
This is weaponized moralism.
It shows up when women say:
“This space is for us.”
“This protection is necessary.”
“We don’t feel safe.”
And suddenly—
those who never cared before appear to shame us.
They twist protection into prejudice.
They call safeguarding bigotry.
They treat your boundaries like violence—
while staying silent about actual violence.
But we remember…
We remember the women who whispered their fears and were ignored.
We remember the disabled girls whose voices were dismissed
because they couldn’t shout.
We remember the war zones,
where girls protect girls
because no one else will.
We remember that safety is not selfish.
It is sacred.
It is earned.
It is ours.
🔥 A Word for the Ones Who Try to Silence Us:
You do not get to moralize over boundaries you never protected.
You do not get to shame women for standing where you refused to stand.
You do not get to reframe neglect as nobility, or access as inclusion.
This is not about your feelings.
This is about our right to exist without fear.
And we will keep speaking.
For the disabled girls.
For the women in hiding.
For the children caught in crossfire and silence.
We will not trade truth for approval.
We will not give away dignity in exchange for being called “nice.”
We are not hateful.
We are done begging.
We speak.
Even when our voices shake.
Especially when they try to shame us into quiet.
Because silence isn’t kindness—
It’s complicity.
Share if you feel safe and ready—your voice might be the lifeline someone else needs.
And if you do share, remember to cite the messenger. Words carry legacy.
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