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Category: Resources for parents/caretakers

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UPDATE: How Good Parents Miss Child Sexual Abuse and 5 Questions to Change That
Abuse by Older Children, Boys of Color

UPDATE: How Good Parents Miss Child Sexual Abuse and 5 Questions to Change That

TGJP August 31, 2016
Update:  I published this during the summer months (2015). It s [...]
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How Some Teachers Are on the Frontlines of Fighting Child Sexual Abuse
Abuse by Older Children, Child sexual abuse

How Some Teachers Are on the Frontlines of Fighting Child Sexual Abuse

TGJP June 27, 2016
Did you know that some victims of child sexual abuse prefer to confi [...]
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🛑 Summer Safety Alert: Predators Count on Your Distractions—Don’t Let Them
Abuse by Older Children, Child Abuse

🛑 Summer Safety Alert: Predators Count on Your Distractions—Don’t Let Them

TGJP June 3, 2016
 Yes, it’s summer again. And while many of us are fo [...]
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Pregnancy, Panic, and the Past: Supporting Survivors Through the Miracle of Birth
Advocates/Activists, Child sexual abuse

Pregnancy, Panic, and the Past: Supporting Survivors Through the Miracle of Birth

TGJP April 11, 2016
*Updated for 2025 When a close relative—let’s call her Morgan [...]
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How to Get the Truth Around Obstacles of Myths, Lies, & Distraction: Infographics
Celebrity/Fame, Child sexual abuse

How to Get the Truth Around Obstacles of Myths, Lies, & Distraction: Infographics

TGJP December 10, 2015
Let Me Tell ItI once worked as the sexual assault Outreach Advocate fo [...]
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6 FAQ by Parents & Caretakers about Child Sexual Abuse
Child sexual abuse, Child sexual violence

6 FAQ by Parents & Caretakers about Child Sexual Abuse

TGJP August 20, 2015
Today, I would like to speak to the parents and caretakers of children [...]
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🖤 12 Ways Black Women Are Harmed When Men Weaponize Oppressive Systems (video & audio)
Audio/Podcast

🖤 12 Ways Black Women Are Harmed When Men Weaponize Oppressive Systems (video & audio)

🖤 1. Demanding Grace While Denying Ours Black women are often expected to extend endless empathy, understanding, and forgiveness—especially to Black [...]
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Tina Turner Survived Through Hell and NOTHING About That is Funny
Black Women

Tina Turner Survived Through Hell and NOTHING About That is Funny

updated from November 8 2024 elink.io | See Original [...]
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10 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Respect You (And What Survivors Must Know About the Programming That Keeps Us Silent)
Womanism/Feminism

10 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Respect You (And What Survivors Must Know About the Programming That Keeps Us Silent)

 updated from Sep 28, 2025  Survival is one type of strength. Healing is another. We heal the things we never should have had to survive in the fir [...]
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Stop Shaming Women for Protecting Themselves
Abuse

Stop Shaming Women for Protecting Themselves

updated from September 24, 2025 Too often, when a woman dares to speak up about her own safety needs, she is shamed. Other women tell her she’s “over [...]
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When Blackness Is Clear but Womanhood Becomes a Debate: A Question for Black Leaders
Abuse

When Blackness Is Clear but Womanhood Becomes a Debate: A Question for Black Leaders

When you are a woman—an adult female human being who has overlapping disabilities that all intersect with being a woman—it gets extremely challenging [...]
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Growing Up as a Girl: What Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s 2017 Controversy Confirmed for Me About Women’s Voices
Girls

Growing Up as a Girl: What Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s 2017 Controversy Confirmed for Me About Women’s Voices

If someone can convince you that speaking about mistreatment is worse than the mistreatment itself, they have found a powerful way to protect those re [...]
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Tennessee Court Orders New Trial in Paris Lee Case: What Women Should Know About the Ruling
Abuse

Tennessee Court Orders New Trial in Paris Lee Case: What Women Should Know About the Ruling

I heard about this tragedy, and I thought it was the end of the court case.....An appellate court overturned a manslaughter conviction after f [...]
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When Someone Knows You’re Uncomfortable and Keeps Pushing: Recognizing Emotional Abuse
Abuse

When Someone Knows You’re Uncomfortable and Keeps Pushing: Recognizing Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse can be difficult to explain in a society that struggles to respect women's safety boundaries in the first place.So much of emotion [...]
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Swatting Rape Survivors Should Carry Serious Criminal Penalties
Rape

Swatting Rape Survivors Should Carry Serious Criminal Penalties

Swatting a rape Survivor should be treated as a serious criminal offense, with enhanced penalties when the act is intended to intimidate, threaten, or [...]
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I Have Spent Too Many Years Listening to Women and Children to Believe That Saying Something Makes It True
Abuse

I Have Spent Too Many Years Listening to Women and Children to Believe That Saying Something Makes It True

I have spent more than 30 years working with women and children who have experienced abuse. And one of the things that experience has taught me is tha [...]
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When Blackness Is Clear but Womanhood Becomes a Debate: A Question for Black Leaders

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Growing Up as a Girl: What Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s 2017 Controversy Confirmed for Me About Women’s Voices

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Tennessee Court Orders New Trial in Paris Lee Case: What Women Should Know About the Ruling

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When Someone Knows You’re Uncomfortable and Keeps Pushing: Recognizing Emotional Abuse

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Swatting Rape Survivors Should Carry Serious Criminal Penalties

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Women Are Human Beings Outside of Their Relationships With Males

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You Can’t Say the F-Word on Television, but You Can Call Women Whores?

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Black Women Have Carried the Community Long Enough. When Will OUR Safety Become a Priority?

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Sherrie Laurie Fought to Keep an Alaska Women’s Shelter Safe. Why Are Women Still Being Asked to Explain Their Need for Safety?

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