🔥 “You Said I Look Like a Man? Let’s Break That Down.” 🔥

Subjective Much?

“Looking like a man” is a subjective opinion, not a sacred truth.
It reflects your perception, not my reality.

Irrelevant. Entirely.

Regardless of what you think you see, I will continue living my womanly life—
With the expectations, labor, dangers, responsibilities, and systemic burdens uniquely and intentionally set up for female human beings.
So again… who cares?

What Exactly Am I Supposed to Do With That?

If you really thought I was a man, wouldn’t that mean you’d expect less from me?
Less nurturing.
Less patience.
Less caregiving.
Less suffering in silence.

So now I’m confused—why are you still holding me to the standard you reserve for women?

Let’s be honest:
You see a woman.
You know I’m a woman.

And that comment?
That’s not about how I look—it’s about trying to tear me down.
It’s about trying to make me question my humanity.
To make me feel like I have to prove I deserve dignity.

But I’m not available for that.
I’m not an aesthetic. I’m a human being.
I am not here to please your eye.
I am here to live my life—loudly, freely, truthfully.

So take your projection. Take your insult. Take your need to diminish.

And know this:

I don’t owe you softness.
I don’t owe you silence.

I don’t owe you labor.

I don’t owe you obedience.

I don’t owe you cluelessness. 

And I will not shrink to fit your discomfort.

✨ Survivor Affirmations:

“I Was Never Meant to Live on the Surface.”

🧿 I am not here to live a shallow life. I am rooted in something deeper.

🧿 I was not created to be consumed—I was created to be known, by myself first.

🧿 My worth is not up for debate. Not on a screen. Not in a crowd. Not in someone else’s fleeting opinion.

🧿 I do not live for aesthetics. I live for alignment.

🧿 I am more than angles, features, or frames. I am story, soul, and survival.

🧿 I love myself in the quiet and the chaos. I love myself in the light and the shadows.

🧿 I do not need to perform beauty to deserve respect.

🧿 I release the weight of being pleasing. I carry the power of being whole.

🧿 I choose a deeper life. A sacred life. A life that sees beyond appearances.

🧿 I do not chase shallow approval. I build unshakeable peace.

🧿 My reflection is not just seen in mirrors—it’s seen in the lives I heal, the love I give, the boundaries I hold.

🧿 I live in the full truth of my womanhood—complex, complete, and unapologetically divine.