Category: Loving Safely

Marcia Johnson, Part 2: Follow the Chain. Why Was Her Safety Riding on $5,000?
At first glance, the story of Marcia Johnson can produce a very simple [...]

Your Right to Choose Depends on Your Right to Know: When Romantic Deception Interferes with Consent
Which facts may another person deliberately falsify while seeking some [...]

NO ONE Can Assert a Right to Be in Your Dating Pool
You are allowed to have preferences that produce absolutely no social [...]

Before You Put Up the House: What Mattie Michael Taught Us About the Way Women Love
Retracing Mattie Michael’s Footsteps: Sometimes We Have to Ask Why We [...]

If You Love Us, Why Are You Fighting for the Right to Hurt Us?
Harm does not always arrive announcing itself as hatred. Sometimes it [...]

10 Dangerous Beliefs That Have Harmed Women Around the World
updated from April 8 2025
Some lies don’t look like lies.They [...]

Women Are Not a Feeling. We Are Not Yours to Define.
originally published in 2025
There is a dangerous lie being whisper [...]

“Why Do Her Posts Always Seem to Reassure Men, Not Women?”
updated from Dec. 13 2025First of all, before I say anything else, [...]

10 Ways Men of Any Identity Still Treat Women Like a Resource Instead of a Human Being
Identity is not a shield. A label is not a character reference. A man [...]

Dating Preferences Aren’t Just Preferences. Women Have Always Been Choosing Something Deeper.
"People online kept saying, 'Preferences are for pizza. Not people.'
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