Category: Online Abuse/Predators

When Our Words Teach Them Whatâs âNormalâ About Violence
If weâre spending more time excusing violenceâsaying we âunderstandâ o [...]

The Pressure to âBe Niceâ While Male Violence Goes Excused
If ever you have any question about which people in the room are women [...]

Whoâs Really Saying âStop Harming Herâ?
You want women to fight for men when those same men will not even say, [...]

12 Ways Communities & Families Normalize Predators â and Destroy Survivors in the Process
The truth is not quiet. The truth is not polite. The truth is not neut [...]

The Unseen Cage: What Coercive Control Really Looks Like
Because not all abuse leaves bruisesâbut it can still [...]

Donât Share My Scars and Then Ask for My Help.
Letâs talk about something that happens all too oftenâespecially to [...]

When Healing Language Gets Mocked: Gaslighting by Cultural Delegitimization
They asked you to speak. Or, it is time and space designed for speak [...]

Who Benefits From My Silence?
Every time I swallowed the truth, someone else got fed.Fed with powe [...]

Why Womenâs Rights Vary by Stateâand Menâs Donât: A Breakdown of Legal Inequality in America
Do you see all this debate over "women's spaces" and NONE over [...]

Cultural Complicity: The Silence That Hurts More Than the First Harm
He Did the Harm. They Held the Door.
Sometimes itâs not just the pers [...]