You finally say you cannot do it. Then you spend the afternoon trying to figure out how to do it anyway. You look at your calendar again. Perhaps you could …
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Listening to Women: She Asked a Safety Question. Why Are You Trying to Wear Her Down?
This series is about women asking pointed questions about our health, privacy, and safety, and expecting substantive answers. Who does this decision affect? What protections are in place? Who takes …
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How Much of Your Abuse Story Do You Have to Tell?
You can tell someone that you had a painful childhood without handing them the whole house key. Some people hear a small disclosure and immediately begin opening doors. Who was …
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You Can Be Nervous and Still Mean No: Holding Your Boundaries When Someone Tries to Shame You
You do not have to stop feeling apprehensive before you can stand by what you said. Your voice may shake. You may need to read from a note. Dignity does …
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The World Has Changed. We Need Leaders Who Can Serve People Who Don’t Believe as They Do.
Years ago, I interviewed for a position with a statewide sexual violence coalition. I had earned my bachelor’s degree (Organizational Management and Development) from a Christian university not far from …
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Miss Evers’ Boys: Not Everyone Who Helps You Feel Comfortable Is Helping You Stay Safe
The Survival Lesson in Miss Evers’ Boys One of the hardest lessons we learn about human behavior is that people don’t have to seem evil to participate in something harmful. …
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When a Female Student Reports Rape, Why Is She the One Who Loses Her Education? The Title IX Connection
What every young woman should understand about sexual violence, school safety, and the right to an education. Imagine arriving at college with your whole future ahead of you. You have …
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Chief Theresa Kachindamoto Did Not Wait for More Girls to Be Harmed. She Took Action.
It isn’t hard for leaders to protect girls, but they have to act. To whom much is given, much is expected. We gotta start expecting more from leaders when it …
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We Followed Farrah Fawcett. Then The Burning Bed Showed Us a Horror That Was Happening in Real Homes.
updated from April 4 2025 Generation X was not ready for this story, but we needed it! Our Boomer parents were not ready either, but they most definitely needed …
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🚩 Red Flag: When Someone Is Offended by Your Boundaries
updated from June 9, 2025 Please pay attention. If someone—a person, a group, a movement, a “friend,” a partner—gets angry, offended, or manipulative because you’ve set a boundary… That is …