Category: Self Worth
Walking Away Isnât Weak. Itâs the Bravest Thing You Ever Did.
They told you walking away meant you gave up.That you werenât strong [...]
You Werenât Difficult. You Were Just Finally Done Pretending It Didnât Hurt
They called you difficult.Unreasonable.Too sensitive.Hard to love.
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You Donât Owe Anyone Access to the Version of You That Had to Survive Them
There are people who remember you in your survival state.And they ro [...]
They Donât Miss You. They Miss the Version of You That Didn’t Know Better
Letâs tell the truth today.
Sometimes when people say they âmiss you, [...]
Your Healing Threatens the People Who Benefited From Your Wounds
Not everyone wants to see you healed.Some people were only comfortab [...]
A Lot of Movements Need Black Women. But Do They Value Us?
....to gain some reciprocity
Lauryn Hill/X Factor We see it ev [...]
Who Is Deserving of Black Womenâs Solidarity?
There are furious debates about this behind closed doors. Personally [...]
đ«ïž Brain Fog, Trauma & Energy: What Your Mind Is Trying to Tell You
You lose your train of thought.You forget names, words, or where you [...]
Your Self-Righteousness Will Not End Domestic Violence
So you were âright.âYou âsaw the signs.âYou âtold her he wasnât good.â [...]
Narrative Control: One More Way Survivors Get Silenced
Thereâs something you need to know about how survivors are treated aft [...]