Category: Surviving Daily

We Can Tell What Team You’re On
If you're not an advocate for giving violent, manipulative, deceptive, [...]

This Moment Is Teaching Us
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A young Black woman—famous, talented, in the pub [...]

Your Opinion Is Not Protection
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Let’s get something straight:
Your opinion abou [...]

You’re Not Her Judge. You’re Not Even Helpful.
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The internet is full of people who think that [...]

Your Self-Righteousness Will Not End Domestic Violence
So you were “right.”You “saw the signs.”You “told her he wasn’t good.” [...]

Narrative Control: One More Way Survivors Get Silenced
There’s something you need to know about how survivors are treated aft [...]

It’s Not About What You Told Her. It’s About What She Can Teach You.
So many rush to say: “I told her.”“She didn’t listen.”“She shou [...]

“I Told Her” Is About You—Not the Victim
Let’s talk about it.
When a woman is harmed—physically, emotionally [...]

What We’ve Carried Was Never Meant for Us
They taught us early how to carry it.
The silence. The secrets [...]

We Must Unlearn the Misplaced Blame We Inherited
I am a Black woman.I was raised as a Black woman in the Un [...]