Category: Surviving Daily

You Don’t Owe Anyone Access to the Version of You That Had to Survive Them
There are people who remember you in your survival state.And they ro [...]

Who Is Deserving of Black Women’s Solidarity?
There are furious debates about this behind closed doors. Personally [...]

It Wasn’t Just His Girlfriends: A Pattern of Harm, a Society of Silence
Too often, when men like Sean “Diddy” Combs are accused of vio [...]

We Can Tell What Team You’re On
If you're not an advocate for giving violent, manipulative, deceptive, [...]

This Moment Is Teaching Us
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A young Black woman—famous, talented, in the pub [...]

Your Opinion Is Not Protection
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Let’s get something straight:
Your opinion abou [...]

You’re Not Her Judge. You’re Not Even Helpful.
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The internet is full of people who think that [...]

Your Self-Righteousness Will Not End Domestic Violence
So you were “right.”You “saw the signs.”You “told her he wasn’t good.” [...]

Narrative Control: One More Way Survivors Get Silenced
There’s something you need to know about how survivors are treated aft [...]

It’s Not About What You Told Her. It’s About What She Can Teach You.
So many rush to say: “I told her.”“She didn’t listen.”“She shou [...]