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Something About That Bothered Me: 10 Early Manipulation Tactics to Know
As an advocate, you find that women are often relieved to talk with so [...]

It’s Easier This Way: When Avoiding His Reaction Starts Shrinking Your Life
“It’s easier this way” can sound like a small decision. Let him choose [...]

Are You Making Choices, or Managing His Reactions?
Sometimes a woman says, “I can do whatever I want.” And technically, s [...]

Before They Called It Women’s Rights: 7 Ways Black Women in Colonial Peru Were Already Claiming Power
Women have been finding one another and making a way for a very long t [...]

The Rules of Misogyny: A History of a Brilliant Internet List
This list is brilliant because it captures the messy truth so succinct [...]

“Interrogate Your Choices” Isn’t Advice. It’s a Leash.
It's dating. Cuts WILL be made. But too many people have a problem wit [...]

The Difference Between Female Vulnerability and Female Weakness
,In my years as a court advocate, there was a dynamic that u [...]

Stop Telling Black Women to Be Silent—Our Bodies Are Paying the Price. (podcast episode)
Black women are not “overreacting”—we are responding to what our bodie [...]

13 Essential Habits for Non-Misogynistic Ideologies
13 Essential Hasbits of Non-Misogynistic Ideologies by Tonya GJ [...]

When We Overlook Violence, We Undermine Our Own Freedom
When women overlook the violent histories of lawmakers, safety and pro [...]