Amongst Gen X, Boomers, and those blessed with more years, we have been having a conversation for a few years. About gender. When do we remember hearing that term first, …
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Womanism/FeminismAbuse of PowerBlack WomenBody safetyBoundariesDECEPTIONFemale Health and SafetyFemale SafetyFGMGirlsHerstory/HistoryLegal/CourtroomManipulationPolitical ActionPoliticsPowerRapeRED FLAGSSafetySurviving DailyVideoViolence Against WomenWomen
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When We Expand Access, Are We Actually Expanding Protection?
There is something we need to pay closer attention to when people announce progress. Sometimes lawmakers and institutions expand the number of people included in a policy, and everybody celebrates. …
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Abuse of PowerAbuseAdvocates/ActivistsBody safetyBoundariesCampus violenceCivil Rights & Social JusticeCoercionPoliticsPowerRED FLAGSSafe Boundaried SpacesSafeguardingSafetyViolationViolence Against WomenWomen's Rights
Women Are Sounding the Alarm Because We Have Seen What Happens When Institutions Get Safety Wrong
Most people are perfectly capable of thinking, reasoning, and making thoughtful decisions. We do it every day. We manage families, solve problems at work, care for loved ones, and navigate …
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Black Leaders Understand Why We Question Racial Identity. So Why Is It Different When Women Question Sex?
It takes extraordinary arrogance to approach grown women as if we are strangers to our own existence. Something has been bothering me about the way some of our leaders discuss race …
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GirlsDECEPTIONFemale Civil RightsFemale Health and SafetyHerstory/HistoryMisogynyPolitical ActionPoliticsPowerSelf careSelf LoveSelf WorthWomanism/Feminism
Growing Up as a Girl: What Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s 2017 Controversy Confirmed for Me About Women’s Voices
If someone can convince you that speaking about mistreatment is worse than the mistreatment itself, they have found a powerful way to protect those responsible. In 2017, when Chimamanda Ngozi …
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AbuseAbuse of PowerAdvocates/ActivistsDisability and Chronic IllnessDomestic AbuseDomestic ViolencePolitical ActionPoliticsPowerRapeRED FLAGSRelationshipsSafetySelf careSelf LoveSelf WorthTeen Dating ViolenceWomen's Rights
When Someone Knows You’re Uncomfortable and Keeps Pushing: Recognizing Emotional Abuse
Emotional abuse can be difficult to explain in a society that struggles to respect women’s safety boundaries in the first place. So much of emotional abuse involves someone knowing what …
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AffirmationsBody safetyBoundariesCivil Rights & Social JusticeCoercionConsentPolitical ActionPoliticsPowerRED FLAGSSafe Boundaried SpacesSafeguardingSafetySelf careSelf LoveSelf WorthTRUTHVictims RightsViolationViolence Against Women
How Violence Prevention Is Treated as Worse Than the Violence Itself
When a woman asks for safety, listen to the danger she is describing before you begin searching for something wrong with her character. We absolutely must reflect on how we …
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AbuseBoysChild Abusechild safetyChildrenCivil Rights & Social JusticeConfidenceConsentCultureFemale Health and SafetyGirlsPolitical ActionPoliticsPowerSafe Boundaried SpacesSafeguardingSPEAKVictims RightsViolationViolence Against WomenWomanism/Feminism
Female Teachers Are Sounding the Alarm: What Are Boys Being Taught About Women, and Who Is Protecting the Girls in Their Classrooms?
What happens when a generation of girls is expected to learn alongside boys who are being taught to regard them as lesser human beings? What female teachers are describing deserves …
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RapePolitical ActionPoliticsPowerViolationViolence Against WomenWomanism/FeminismWomen's Rights
It’s Not About Sex: How Rape Culture Actually Works (video)
Rape culture isn’t about sex. This video is about the everyday behaviors that teach boys other people’s discomfort is entertainment, that boundaries are negotiable, and that his amusement matters more …
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Civil Rights & Social JusticeAbuseAbuse of PowerBlack WomenDECEPTIONHerstory/HistoryMale Victims and AlliesManipulationMisogynyMissing PersonsPolitical ActionPoliticsPowerRapeSPEAKTeensWomanism/FeminismYouth
Victimization, Victimhood, and the Right to Keep Naming What Happened
Victimized vs. Victimization Victimization describes an experience, act, process, or condition in which someone is harmed, exploited, abused, targeted, deprived of rights, or subjected to wrongdoing. Victimization tells us what …