Category: Abuse of Power

12 Quiet Ways Self-Abandonment Shows Up
(And How to Come Home to Yourself)
Self-abandonment isnât always loud [...]

Why âI Donât Care About Potential Harm-Doersâ Sounds Empowering But Isnât
We get it.Youâre tired of tiptoeing.Youâre tired of warning signs, red [...]

Silencing Is Always the First Strike
Survivors of violenceâwhether in war zones or in personal lifeâoften f [...]

Even When They Didn’t Hear Your “No,” You Still Deserve to Be Heard
Sometimes the harm didnât stop when you said no.Sometimes the people w [...]

Donât Be Tricked Into Serving What Would Never Save You
Avoid letting any manâno matter how soft his tone, poetic his struggle [...]

đŁ Beauty as a Battlefield: When We Compete, They Win
Letâs tell the truth:This world wants women to be at war with each o [...]

Aesthetic Gatekeeping: You Are Not Here for Their Approval Ratings
Letâs talk about one of the oldest games in the patriarchy playbookâan [...]

Sex-Based Social Control Is Not About Beauty. Itâs About Access to Humanity.
Letâs talk about one of the most sinister tactics in the game: [...]

When Beauty Becomes a Battleground: 7 Names for This Power Grab
When men try to crown one woman and crucify another based on looks, [...]

đ„ Self-Sourced Power: When the World Wonât Crown You, You Crown Yourself
There comes a time in the life of every Survivor, every truth-teller, [...]