Category: Encourage
Black Woman, Begin With You
They taught us to pour and pour and pour.To give âtil we vanish.
Bu [...]
Your Defense of Them Is a Betrayal of Me
Letâs say this out loudâfor the ones still doubting themselves.For the [...]
Start Your Own, Even If Itâs Small. Because Truth Needs a Home.
Letâs tell the truth that so many are scared to say:
They keep claimi [...]
We Didnât Come Here to Be Palatable
We did not come here to be pleasant.We did not come here to repeat w [...]
Your Voice Was Never the ProblemâTheir Comfort with Harm Was
They told you to lower your voice.To be more careful.To stop "bringing [...]
Iâm Not Explaining Myself AnymoreâYou Were Just Never Listening
There comes a point in your healing when you get tired.Not just tire [...]
They Don’t Deserve to Witness the Healed You if They Mocked the Broken You
Can we romanticizing reconciliation with people who ridiculed your p [...]
You Werenât Difficult. You Were Just Finally Done Pretending It Didnât Hurt
They called you difficult.Unreasonable.Too sensitive.Hard to love.
[...]
You Donât Owe Anyone Access to the Version of You That Had to Survive Them
There are people who remember you in your survival state.And they ro [...]
We Can Tell What Team Youâre On
If you're not an advocate for giving violent, manipulative, deceptive, [...]