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This Is Why Victims Sue: It’s Not About Greed. It’s About Survival.

They say it’s a “cash grab.”They roll their eyes.They whisper behind hands.They ask: Why didn’t she just go to the police? But we know better. We’ve

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They say it’s a “cash grab.”
They roll their eyes.
They whisper behind hands.
They ask: Why didn’t she just go to the police?

But we know better.

We’ve lived it.

We know how the system plays deaf when we scream,
how the courtroom becomes a stage where we are on trial,
and how Survivors can lose everything and still be denied justice.

So, we sue.

Not because it makes us rich.
But because the criminal justice system was never built for us.

Not for our grief.
Not for our shame.
Not for our trauma-wracked bodies.
Not for our children watching from the sidelines, praying the adults do the right thing.

We sue because…

  • Therapy isn’t free.

  • Rebuilding a life costs.

  • Chronic pain needs treatment.

  • Moving to safety requires money.

  • And some of us lose everything when we tell the truth.

They say we’re chasing a bag.
But in truth—we’re chasing breath.
We are trying to breathe again in a world that tried to choke us silent.


✨ Survivor Affirmations

  • I am not greedy for surviving.

  • My safety is worth every penny.

  • I have the right to repair, recover, and rise.

  • What I lost deserves to be honored.

  • I will not apologize for seeking justice outside broken systems.

  • My voice is not for sale. But my silence never was either.

  • I stand in the truth, and I stand in my worth.


🔥 Benediction of Power

You do not need anyone’s permission to pursue the path that heals you.

If the courtroom failed you,
If the system failed you,
If the people who should have protected you failed you—

That is not your shame to carry.

Rebuilding your life should not be punished.
You are allowed to fight back with every tool available.
You are allowed to reclaim what the violence tried to take.

And may no one ever again shame you for seeking restoration
in a world that tried to deny your very humanity.

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