“I get to treat you horribly because I have decided that you are less than me.” Power and control don’t always look the same.But they always speak the same language. …
Tonya GJ Prince
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Civil Rights & Social JusticeAbuseAbuse of PowerAdvocates/ActivistsBlack WomenHerstory/HistoryPolitical ActionPowerRED FLAGSSPEAKTRUTHViolationWisdomWomanism/Feminism
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You Don’t Get Grievance Without a Vacuum of Accountability
Grievance doesn’t grow in a vacuum. It grows where accountability is absent, deferred, or endlessly redirected. This is a profound distinction. You’re describing the difference between a wound that heals …
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Womanism/FeminismBlack WomenCommunityDisability and Chronic IllnessFemale Health and Safetyfemale health civil rightsHealingLoving SafelySafe Boundaried SpacesStorytellingSurviving DailyWisdomWomenWomen's Rights
Before Social Media, Women Told Stories—Did We Forget How to Listen?
Before critique culture.Before hot takes. Before performance listening.Before everyone felt required to respond. Women told stories.And other women sat with them. Not to analyze.Not to correct.Not to diagnose.Not to “balance …
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Why Listening to Women’s Pain Feels Hard—And Why It Matters More Than We Admit
I was confused by my own exhaustion. I had spent years doing what some people think is the hardest part of advocacy. Helping women find shelter Securing funds for rent …
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Forced Sterilization Wasn’t a Mistake. It Was Misogyny and Racism Working Together.
“All they know about is slavery” Do we? Or is that all you heard before you stopped listening so people stopped sharing with you? Because there is too much more. …
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When White Women Say “Misogyny Is Older,” What’s Really Happening
That move is often about re-centering. When Black women name race and gender together, the response isn’t just disagreement—it’s anxiety about losing narrative control. Saying “misogyny is older” becomes a …
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What Knowledge Are Black Women Assumed Not to Have?
Black women are often assumed not to know: Our own history Political theory Feminist scholarship Legal realities Medical facts Global context This assumption shows up quietly, but constantly. It appears …
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Who Gets Believed Without Footnotes?
People closest to power. Belief, in our world, is not evenly distributed. It flows along familiar lines—toward those whose voices already sound “right,” whose language fits established norms, and whose …
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Black WomenCommunityCultureFemale Health and SafetyLoving SafelyMental Wellness and HealingPolitical ActionPowerSurviving DailyWomanism/Feminism
What Does a Feminism That Includes You Actually Require?
It requires wholeness, not performance. A feminism that includes Black women does not ask us to arrive as fragments—carefully edited, softened, or stripped of context. It does not demand that …
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Why Are Black Women Always Told to “Educate” Others?
Because our knowledge is often treated as public property rather than personal wisdom. There is an unspoken expectation that Black women should always be ready to explain—calmly, patiently, and on …