Category: Body safety
Red Flags: Why Do Some People Refuse to Challenge Systems of Harm â and What Does that Reveal About Them?
Womenâs safety movements grew from necessity â from the silences of la [...]
Why Are Women Told to Stay Calm About Things That Should Horrify Everyone?
When women, girls, and children talk about boundaries, itâs not hate s [...]
Abuse Isnât About Rage. Itâs About Control.
đď¸ See It ClearlyWatch who people protect â and who they hurt.
Wa [...]
Real Activism Protects Children, Not Egos
If the full extent of your âactivismâ against grooming is railing agai [...]
Respect Without Surrender: When Rights Donât Mean Access
The Foundation of True Respect
Respect is not ownership.And justice d [...]
Youâre Not Asking for PerfectionâYouâre Asking for Respect: Recognizing a Common Deflection Tactic
đ The Tactic
When you call out something harmfulâlike antisemitism, r [...]
The Hidden Bill: What Violence Against Women Really Costs
When we talk about violence, we rarely talk about what the financial c [...]
Fire Test: When You Ask Women to Support Violence
You are sending forth aspiring leaders who have no history of standing [...]
Avoid Praising Harm: How Women Can Break the Cycle of Defending Those Who Do Damage
When women defend harmful behavior, they lose their sense of safety. L [...]
When Women Excuse Violence, Everyone Pays: The High Cost of Ignoring Abuse
In politics, too many women of privilege in America give violent men a [...]