Every so often, somebody starts a conversation about women changing their last names when they marry. And before long, people are making judgments about women abandoning their history, rejecting their …
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12 Powerful Lessons from “The Hooters Murders Deadly Shift”: What We Must Do Better to Protect Women
There is something deeply troubling about watching a documentary about murdered women and realizing how many of the dangers they faced extend far beyond the places where they worked. Oxygen’s …
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Miss Evers’ Boys: Not Everyone Who Helps You Feel Comfortable Is Helping You Stay Safe
The Survival Lesson in Miss Evers’ Boys One of the hardest lessons we learn about human behavior is that people don’t have to seem evil to participate in something harmful. …
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When a Female Student Reports Rape, Why Is She the One Who Loses Her Education? The Title IX Connection
What every young woman should understand about sexual violence, school safety, and the right to an education. Imagine arriving at college with your whole future ahead of you. You have …
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Shelter Full or Closed? Where Survivors Can Still Find Help in 2026
If you are in danger right now, call 911. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788, 24 hours a day. If someone …
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We Followed Farrah Fawcett. Then The Burning Bed Showed Us a Horror That Was Happening in Real Homes.
updated from April 4 2025 Generation X was not ready for this story, but we needed it! Our Boomer parents were not ready either, but they most definitely needed …
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When Did You Decide That Female Human Beings Are Not Even Worthy of Having a Word to Describe Themselves?
by TGJPby TGJPupdated from February 8, 2024 When Did Women Lose the Right to Name Ourselves? Female erasure is hardly a new concept. For generations, societies have treated the birth of a …
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A Book and Film I Recommend: Bastard Out of Carolina by Dorothy Allison
Another book from my personal shelf… Some books stay with you long after you’ve finished reading them. Bastard Out of Carolina (1992) is one of those books. But I want …
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Stop Shaming Women for Protecting Themselves
updated from September 24, 2025 Too often, when a woman dares to speak up about her own safety needs, she is shamed. Other women tell her she’s “overreacting,” “paranoid,” or …
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Why Is Everybody Debating What a Woman Is Instead of Asking Why People Fear Male Violence?
You don’t have to worry about who we women are—since you don’t seem to know—because we are not the people behind the violence. Men need not keep speaking publicly about …