Category: DECEPTION

Safety Is Power. Access Is a Privilege.
People are always telling us about the habits of powerful people. We [...]

When Human Resources Protects Power, Not People: What the Sean Combs Case Reveals
The trial against music mogul Sean Combs is not just about one [...]

âFAQ: Whatâs Going On With Untested Rape Kits?
Q: What is a rape kit?
A rape kit (also called a sexual ass [...]

Why We Must Stop Centering Discomfort Over Male-on-Male Sexual Violence
When a male accuses another male of sexual harassment or assault, what [...]

âïž Unlearning the Lie: When âBeing a Good Personâ Means Upholding Harm
Some of us were taught that being a âgood personâ meant keeping quiet. [...]

â ïž Sometimes Male Agitation Is Not Just a âBad Moodâ
It Can Be a Ramp-Up to Violence. Especially Against the Vulnerable.
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Dear Survivor: You Were Not Born to Absorb Abuse or Protect Harmful Men
A Message for Every Woman Who Was Taught to Shrink Herself to Keep the [...]

đ© When His Praise Requires Another Womanâs Demeaning: Thatâs Not a ComplimentâThatâs a Red Flag
At first, you felt flattered.He spoke highly of you. Said you were dif [...]

Healing When Your Abuser Is Still Welcome at the Table
The betrayal no one wants to talk aboutâbut every Survivor remembers.
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When Chaos Is a Weapon: How Some Partners Use Crisis to Control You
And why youâre not âmeanâ for wanting peaceIt starts with a ba [...]