DECEPTION

There’s a kind of allyship that shows up only when the lights are on.When there’s an audience.When speaking up will gain applause, followers, or favor. But where are these men …

They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access. They call it justice.But only when women are asked to surrender boundaries. They call it hate,when women say no with …

For many men, all of life is a measuring contest.Who has more. Who is stronger. Who commands the most followers, the highest salary, the biggest platform.And too often, that mindset …

“I’d lie for you. I’d die for you. Ride or die for you”- a woman or girl for a a man she admires/likes/loves There’s a saying that floats around online:“If …

Respect is supposed to be mutual.But you wouldn’t know that if you listened to today’s men speak. Somehow, women are expected to earn it, perform for it, suffer in silence …

Water does nothing for fake flowers. So why are women still told to pour? Women are always told to give.To support, love, uplift, and protect—especially men.Even when those same men …

They told you to go back.To be patient.To “love him through it.”To pour water on a man who doesn’t grow, doesn’t change, doesn’t offer safety, doesn’t even acknowledge your pain. …

In today’s world—especially in progressive spaces—many women are made to feel that if they truly care about human rights, they must stay quiet about their own safety concerns. You’re told: …

You are allowed to care about people—and care about your own protection. You are allowed to believe in justice—and believe that boundaries save lives. You are allowed to support dignity …

They’ll tell you that love means saying “yes”.That love means flexibility.That love never closes a door. But love without boundaries?That’s not love.That’s surrender.That’s self-erasure. And you were not created to …