Sometimes the earliest warning comes from the youngest person in the house. Children notice things. They notice when their mother lowers her voice before answering the phone. They notice when …
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Caught Between Two Political Extremes: Why Women and Girls Shouldn’t Have to Choose Who Gets to Control Them
One side wants women to go back. The other has people telling women to move over. And somewhere in the middle, women are asking a perfectly reasonable question: When do …
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The Survivor Who No Longer Agrees Just to Keep the Peace
Some Survivors of abuse become particularly unwilling to participate in narratives they believe are false, especially after they have spent years being pressured to distrust their own observations, memories, and …
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When Freedom Starts Sounding Like Obedience: Why Some Women Call Gender Ideology Extreme Conformity
Women spent generations fighting to get out of boxes. Now we’re supposed to celebrate somebody handing us a new set of instructions? Well, hold on a minute. Because I remember …
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Are We All Unlearning Sexism? Because Girls Should Not Have to Keep Proving They Deserve Their Own Opportunities
No child is “the issue.” This is about the adults. If girls must continually prove their goodness through accommodation, we have not finished unlearning sexism Some people seem very concerned …
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Women Are Tired of Being Told that We Do Not Understand Sexism and Misogyny
We recognize the expectation that women should accommodate men. We recognize the practice of dismissing women’s objections as emotional, irrational, or uninformed. We recognize the habit of treating women’s sacrifices …
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9 Ways Misogyny Is Marketed as Progress
This post was inspired in part by this article……Russell Brand and the tyranny of the Greater Good – spiked Some people have not abandoned the expectation that women should sacrifice. …
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She Wore a Pantsuit to School. They Suspended Her. Then Called the Fight Over Her Rights a Matter of Taste.
Some people are still practicing sexism and calling it “progress” The 1971 case of Sabrina Dale Press reveals how far a Texas school district was willing to go to enforce …
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It Was Cold Outside. The Girls Wanted to Wear Pants. The School Board Had to Vote.
It took a long time for my mother to be comfortable with me wearing pants. I think it was 3rd grade. A lot of GenX, Boomer and more blessed years …
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The Law Said Girls Deserved Equality. So Why Were Schools Still Making Them Wait in 1976?
It is almost 2027, and 1970s-era sexism is still wrong even if you call it “progress.” In January 1976, a Maryland newspaper investigation revealed what girls were still facing in …