Author: Tonya GJ Prince
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🔥 Dating Preference Policing Is Real — And It’s Disrespectful
“Why are you still single?”“You need to lower your standards.”“You're [...]

What Stays When You Start Healing
We talk a lot about what you lose when you heal:The people who walk [...]

Who Leaves When You Start Healing
They don’t always leave when you’re breaking.Sometimes they leave wh [...]

Healing Changed Me—And Some People Only Loved the Version of Me Who Didn’t Know Her Worth
A post for the Survivor who’s outgrowing relationships built on thei [...]

You’re Not Failing—You’re Feeling
A post for Survivors who mistake emotional struggle for regression [...]

Healing Hurts—and It Hurts for a Long Time
Everyone wants to talk about healing like it’s a tidy process.A quic [...]

Predators Don’t Play by the Same Rules
There’s something deeply dangerous about how we’re taught to think abo [...]

Dignity Is Not Bitterness: Elder Women Deserve Safety, Too
Aging should not mean surrendering safety.Growing older should not m [...]

Centering Safety: Honoring the Right to Request Female Carers
Some things should never be controversial.A disabled woman or girl r [...]

In Safety-Centered Spaces—Let’s Tell the Truth About Invasion
When it comes to women and girls, invasion looks like:
Forc [...]