Boundaries

Understand this: When men tell you—warn you—joke with youabout how men operate… When they say things like: “Men are dogs.”“He’s probably cheating already.”“If he hasn’t hit you yet, he will.”“All …

A post for the Survivor who’s outgrowing relationships built on their silence, sacrifice, and self-erasure There’s a version of you they liked better. The one who didn’t speak up.The one …

Aging should not mean surrendering safety.Growing older should not mean losing the right to be heard, respected, or protected. And yet—Too many elder women are dismissed, mocked, or ignored when …

Some things should never be controversial.A disabled woman or girl requesting a female caregiver should not be met with outrage, mockery, or moral judgment. And yet—All too often, women with …

When it comes to women and girls, invasion looks like: Forcing male presence into spaces where women go to breathe, to heal, to be safe without question. Overriding the will …

There’s a kind of allyship that shows up only when the lights are on.When there’s an audience.When speaking up will gain applause, followers, or favor. But where are these men …

They call it compassion.But only when it protects male access. They call it justice.But only when women are asked to surrender boundaries. They call it hate,when women say no with …

We Are Protecting Our Bodies, Not Asking for Permission There’s something deeply broken and dangerous happening in the public square. Women and girls—Survivors, athletes, mothers, daughters, elders—are saying no to …

“I’d lie for you. I’d die for you. Ride or die for you”- a woman or girl for a a man she admires/likes/loves There’s a saying that floats around online:“If …

In today’s world—especially in progressive spaces—many women are made to feel that if they truly care about human rights, they must stay quiet about their own safety concerns. You’re told: …