Category: Safe Boundaried Spaces

The Door Closes When You Choose Their Violence Over My Truth
(Including the violence you want me to stop talking about.)
Thereâs a [...]

What Is Spiritual Violence? And Why We Must Talk About It
âIf your faith doesnât let you cry, rage, rest, or leave the places [...]

Why the Silence Runs Deeper: The Hidden Barriers Black Women Face in Seeking Help
"They ask why she stayed. They never ask why the world made it so ha [...]

You Have the Right To: Speak Your Truth Without Being Punished
So many Survivorsâespecially women and girlsâare taught that âpeaceâ [...]

Iâm Not BitterâI Just Finally Know Better
Theyâll say youâre angry now.That youâre bitter.That youâve changed. [...]

You Were Expected to Bleed Quietly So They Could Stay Comfortable
They didnât just hurt youâThey expected you to stay silent about it.
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They Don’t Deserve to Witness the Healed You if They Mocked the Broken You
Can we romanticizing reconciliation with people who ridiculed your p [...]

A Lot of Movements Need Black Women. But Do They Value Us?
....to gain some reciprocity
Lauryn Hill/X Factor We see it ev [...]

If You Have Nothing Healing to Say to Survivors, You Can Be Silent
In the early days of healing, Survivors are doing sacred, difficult wo [...]

Donât Tell Me Youâre Not One of Them. Show Me.
They got so much things to say right now.About what I shouldâve done.W [...]