Category: Safe Boundaried Spaces

Iâm Not BitterâI Just Finally Know Better
Theyâll say youâre angry now.That youâre bitter.That youâve changed. [...]

You Were Expected to Bleed Quietly So They Could Stay Comfortable
They didnât just hurt youâThey expected you to stay silent about it.
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They Don’t Deserve to Witness the Healed You if They Mocked the Broken You
Can we romanticizing reconciliation with people who ridiculed your p [...]

A Lot of Movements Need Black Women. But Do They Value Us?
....to gain some reciprocity
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If You Have Nothing Healing to Say to Survivors, You Can Be Silent
In the early days of healing, Survivors are doing sacred, difficult wo [...]

Donât Tell Me Youâre Not One of Them. Show Me.
They got so much things to say right now.About what I shouldâve done.W [...]

Youâre Not Her Judge. Youâre Not Even Helpful.
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The internet is full of people who think that [...]

Your Self-Righteousness Will Not End Domestic Violence
So you were âright.âYou âsaw the signs.âYou âtold her he wasnât good.â [...]

We Must Unlearn the Misplaced Blame We Inherited
I am a Black woman.I was raised as a Black woman in the Un [...]

Stop Adding Barriers. Start Listening.
People donât listen to women and children.Not even when we bring a m [...]