Category: Self care
You See Our Blackness, But Not Our Bruises
updated from June 8 2025We are not just Black.We are not just wome [...]
Why You May Want to Unfollow People Who Willfully Turn a Blind Eye to Power Imbalance
As Big Brother Legend on X.com says, "I unfollow (Black) people who do [...]
10 Signs Youâre Being Asked to Tolerate the Intolerable
adjusting.being understanding.keeping the peace.
repeat.
Your cheek [...]
The Insidious Nature of Racial Stress
Many Black people have endured generations of:
âItâs not that bad.ââY [...]
When âNothing Will Happenâ Isnât a Safety Plan: Asking About Real Safeguards
âIf your confidence turns out to be misplaced, what protections exist [...]
Misogyny Is Not a Virtue: When Harmful Attitudes Are Framed as âValuesâ
"Equality and kindness" do not require or justify
the abolition of w [...]
When a Name Is a Doorway Back to Harm: Why womenâs personal choices are not public property
Some decisions look so simple. From the outside.A last name.A [...]
People Donât Fear Your Inner World. They Fear Being Controlled by It.
When I was in college earning my degree in Organizational Management a [...]
Anger Isnât Ruining Your Healing. Silence Did. (10 Quick Reclamation Tips)
For a long time, many of us were taught that anger was the danger.[...]
10 Important Things I Might Be Unlearning on My Healing Journey
1. That my pain has to be âexplained wellâ to be real.
My body al [...]