Category: Self Love
You Can Love People and Still Set Firm, Protective Boundaries
Theyâll tell you that love means saying "yes".That love means flexibil [...]
You Can Be Inclusive Without Abandoning Girls, Women, or Survivors
Inclusion should never come at the cost of someone elseâs safety.
But [...]
Power Doesnât Always Mean ProtectionâAnd Thatâs the Problem
Iâve worked with women in power.Judges. Prosecutors. City council me [...]
The Costliest Mistake We Make When Women Speak About Safety
Some people have the loudest mics.The branding that screams âprogressi [...]
đĄïž Survival Required Specificity
đĄïž Survival Required Specificity
We donât survive by blending in.We s [...]
𧩠Oppressive Systems Are Built to Erase Specificity
We must say it plainly: Oppressive systems are designed to flatten, ge [...]
Some âJustice Movementsâ Are Enabling Harm Against Women and Children. We Need to Talk About It.
Not every movement that says it stands for âjusticeâ is safe for wom [...]
Even in Progressive Spaces, Systems Still Fail Survivors
In many justice-minded communities, we say the right things:
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When Your Strength Makes Them Angry
Some people will try to make you feel like you did something wrong j [...]
𧩠The Price of Silence: Black Women, Coercive Control, and the Hidden Costs of “Unity”
There is a kind of violence that doesnât leave bruises.A kind that hid [...]