Self Love

✊🏾 1. Many Black women rejected the idea that womanhood flows from whiteness. Throughout history, Black women have critiqued the idea that womanhood must be defined by white standards—whether in …

“All women stand in their own magnificent uniqueness—white women, Black women, women across every land and lineage. Black women do not need to fight white women to be free; we …

Q: Is it really sexist to question or challenge women-only spaces? A: Yes. Dismissing, undermining, or demanding access to women-only spaces—especially when women express safety concerns—is a form of modern …

You finally speak up.You say, “I can’t do that.”You say, “I don’t feel safe.”You say, “That’s not okay with me.” And suddenly… it’s like you broke some secret law.People get …

When you begin to heal, grow, or protect yourself, one of the first things you’ll notice is how violently unnecessary your boundaries feel to the people who once benefited from …

On yesterday there was a non-subtle outcry on at least one social media application calling for Black people to go to Los Angeles, California and get involved in the conflict …

  You may want to start observing the number of times men declare that women saying no—is hate.Not submitting? Hate.Setting a boundary? Hate.Walking away? Hate.Choosing peace over performance? Hate. We’ve …

Let’s begin here:You are not required to play a role in someone else’s story just because they’ve written you into it.Not as the forgiving one.Not as the supportive and understanding …

“If I can’t have her love, I’ll go to war against her peace” Some men don’t just move on when Black women say no.They retaliate. They don’t just go date …