Category: Self Worth

When âNothing Will Happenâ Isnât a Safety Plan: Asking About Real Safeguards
âIf your confidence turns out to be misplaced, what protections exist [...]

Hope v Clarity: How Discernment Protects Womenâs Safety
Safety often begins when a woman trusts what she sees instead of what [...]

Survivor Affirmations: Black History Month…. Lets Go!
Updated from January 28, 2024 Black History Month is not a highligh [...]

Why Some Survivors Are Alarmed by the Push to Redefine Womanhood as An Aesthetic
It is harder to ignore now.
Some people noticed it earlier but now it [...]

10 Reasons Why âNot This Personâ Fails Women Every Time
People who shut their eyes to reality simply invite their own destruct [...]

When Survival Is Mistaken for Consent: Black Women, Weaponized Ignorance, and the Right to Refuse
It is not normal for people to know little to nothing about youâand st [...]

People Donât Fear Your Inner World. They Fear Being Controlled by It.
When I was in college earning my degree in Organizational Management a [...]

Anger Isnât Ruining Your Healing. Silence Did. (10 Quick Reclamation Tips)
For a long time, many of us were taught that anger was the danger. [...]

10 Important Things I Might Be Unlearning on My Healing Journey
1. That my pain has to be âexplained wellâ to be real.
My body al [...]

50 Times We Walked Past YouâOur Hair Not to Your Liking, But We Were Dying Inside
updated March 27, 2025
You saw our hair.
Not our fear.Not ou [...]