Category: Surviving Daily

Gender Critical Thinkers: How Can We Speak of Freedom When So Many Women Still Canât Speak at All?
A womanist does not enter this conversation as a spectator â we enter [...]

Why Do They Say Weâre âAgainst Menâ Just Because We Want to Be Safe?
Donât fall for it.Promise yourself that you will not fall for it.
[...]

If the Mind Believes What It Hears Most â What Are We Teaching It About Safety?
Thereâs a reason children learn the alphabet through songs.Thereâs [...]

Youâre Not Broken. You Were Trained to Survive Chaos.
Some of us were raised in rooms where silence was survival.
Where lov [...]

đ Why Do Women Always End Up Doing All the Emotional Work?
Youâre not imagining it.
Every time peace needs patching, s [...]

What Happens When Women Fully Stop Performing Labor For the Male Gaze?
Words That Tried to Tame WomenFor generations, women have been sha [...]

Black Women Have Always Spoken Truth to Power â and We Still Will
In the end anti-black, anti-female, and all forms of discrimination ar [...]

đż Faith, Healing, and the Work of Safe People
People who support Survivorsâfrom all walks of lifeâshould know th [...]

Twelve Steps to Danger: How Alcoholics Anonymous Can Be a Playground for Violence-Prone Members (from ProPublica)
Karla Brada Mendez thought that she was getting a second chance on lif [...]

âWhy Are Women Still Told to Have Faith in Men Who âRebrandâ Themselves?â
âIf his change requires your suffering to prove it, it isnât change [...]