TRUTH

A handful of men hold the feast, while women and darker-skinned people are told to survive on crumbs. Why are we accepting this as normal? For too long, we’ve watched …

Saying “Black woman” is not race discourse.It’s not divisive.It’s not inflammatory.It’s accuracy in the field of violence and abuse — a field that has avoided telling the truth for far …

It’s a strange kind of exhaustion—working beside women who understand abuse in private relationships, yet act confused when the same dynamics show up in systems and institutions. They can name …

To be clear: People are not going to always feel seen. This is a huge planet. We are specifically talking about spaces, and conversations around violence, abuse, and Survivors….but harm …

Across cultures, eras, and systems, females are positioned as the most vulnerable group of human beings — not because of weakness, but because of the world’s long-standing appetite for controlling, …

From the time we are little girls, the world trains us to keep the peace.To stay quiet.To stay pleasant.To never upset anyone — especially men. We are raised to apologize …

Men should never expect a polite, dainty response when they violate women’s spaces.When you disrupt our safety, you activate our nervous systems — and we will respond. Don’t tell us …

Every time a woman raises her voice about a violation, someone appears — online, in the comments, in the community — to say: “She went off.”“She overreacted.”“She should have handled …

There are times in this work where you have to resist the urge to cuss everybody clean out. Just tell people the truth with no filter. That’s why I wish …

For generations, women have been taught to fear the wrong things.We were warned about dark alleys, strangers, and the “unknown man” who might leap out of the shadows. But the …