Tonya GJ Prince

You’ve seen too much.Lived too much.Heard the stories no one else wanted to hear. And still, they want you to second-guess yourself. They say:“Don’t be paranoid.”“Give people a chance.”“You’re being …

Inclusion should never come at the cost of someone else’s safety. But lately, women and Survivors are being told to prove our goodness by staying silent. To sacrifice our boundaries …

I’m a fangirl of unity too, but only authentic unity. Unity takes real work. Not B.S. in a box where you add water and serve it to people.  They say …

What is moral gaslighting? Moral gaslighting happens when women speak up for their own safety, and instead of being heard, they are shamed, discredited, or reframed as the villain. It’s …

When Women Say, “I Don’t Feel Safe” That’s not a threat.It’s an invitation to build something better. But when leaders double down on silencing instead of listening,they show us:They were …

Women aren’t being mean. We’re being wise. We’ve learned—through generations of harm—that safe spaces must be protected. Not just in theory. But in practice. Here’s why we keep our single-sex …

There’s a dangerous math we don’t talk about enough: Access + Entitlement = Vulnerability to Violence. And Black women and Black girls?We are on the frontlines of that equation every …

By Tonya GJ Prince | WeSurviveAbuse.com Some people believe that stalking only happens after long, intense relationships. They think, “Oh, she must’ve been with him for years.”“Maybe he just couldn’t …

You just can’t even imagine. That’s not a cliché. That’s a fact. Unless you’ve lived it—being stalked, pursued, hunted—you don’t know what it’s like to be someone’s obsession. Stalking isn’t …

People say it like a verdict. “She was no angel.” But I’ve sat across from women others were quick to throw away. Once they started speaking and telling me their …