Category: Advocates/Activists

Iâm Tired of Watching Women Pay the Price While Everyone Else Argues About Words
We cannot keep living in a world where every tool meant to prote [...]

Why Some Black Mothers Choose the Father’s Last Name
One of the reasons that I am not a feminist is because it does not mak [...]

When Power and Control Speaks, It Uses the Same Language
"I get to treat you horribly because I have decided that you are less [...]

The Performance of Ignorance: How Men Pretend Sexual Violence Is News.
There is a peculiar kind of amnesia that grips men whenever the subjec [...]

Manhood Wonât Shatter If We Tell the Truth
There are men who prey on men. Go ahead and get the gasp out of the wa [...]

The Myth of Neutrality: Why Identity Blindness Fails Survivors Every Time
Thereâs a phrase people love to say when conversations get uncomfortab [...]

Truth-Telling Is Not âRace Talk.â Itâs Course Correction.
Saying âBlack womanâ is not race discourse.Itâs not divisive.Itâs no [...]

Some of Us Canât Pretend Institutions Are Harmless
Itâs a strange kind of exhaustionâworking beside women w [...]

Why Do People Call Gender-Critical Women âExtremistsâ When Weâre Just Talking About Safety?
Survivor advocacy has always required naming what endangers women and [...]

Youâre Not Broken. You Were Trained to Survive Chaos.
Some of us were raised in rooms where silence was survival.
Where lov [...]