Some people do not ask you to understand them. They ask you to stop understanding yourself. Women have historically been asked to perform enormous amounts of kindness: caregiving, smoothing conflict, …
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“Lead with Love” Includes Women and Girls Safety Too (short audio message)
Lead with Love That’s what they say. And when they do, never let anyone tell you that leading with love doesn’t include women and girls and our safety and rights. …
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The Dangerous Person Is Always the Most “Interesting” Person in the Room
I will help build a culture where doing good is interesting again. There were so many morally bankrupt and inhumane comments about Jason Arday on social media. One of them …
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“Prove You’re Really With Us”: When Allyship Is Measured in Access to Your Body
A good, strong boundary might save your life one day. Where is She? She joined the group because she believed in what it stood for. The people were warm, the …
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6 Life-Changing Ways Sports Build Courage in Women and Girls
For a short season, my home state had a WNBA team, and I got to go and see a few games up close with my siblings. I was in my …
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The Language of Women’s Freedom: Feminophobia
For generations, women have been told they were imagining “it.” You can fill in the blank for millions of untold “it” things. “If you speak up, you’re difficult.” “If you …
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You Are Not Overreacting: The Truth About Racism and Dismissal (w/Affirmations)
“Being asked to ignore degradation is not an invitation to be strong. It is an invitation to disappear. And you were never meant to disappear.” For Survivors, language is never …
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Women’s History Month Closing Affirmations: Speak Truth, Name Harm, Keep Going
We close this month with clear eyes. Not just looking back, but looking forward with intention. We honor how far women have come. We refuse to be quiet about how …
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12 Things It Is Not Women’s Job to Fix
updated from July 11, 2025 — Especially When We’re Still Doing Most of the Work for Less Pay This piece honors the fact that women perform approximately 76.2% of total …
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Affirmed: Protect Your Power and Disengage From People Who Plant Self-Doubt
by TGJPby TGJPupdated from January 20 2025 This week, I wish you success in distancing yourself from people who plant self-doubt in women and girls. Many female Survivors from various backgrounds around …