Boundaries

Women (and really, all people who want to stay safe) have always had to use discernment when encountering others. Questioning motives is not about being paranoid — it’s about being …

Boundaries are love not hate. They are love in action — love for your peace, your time, your healing, and your future. Saying “no” is not cruelty; it’s clarity. Protecting …

Some men enforce gender roles by pushing women into cages: Be obedient. Be soft. Be nurturing. Be silent. Other men wear those same gender roles like a costume and declare: …

How come they can build these things that bring men in closer proximity to women and children but not more homes for the unhoused, affordable homes for working class folks, …

“We can disagree and still love each other, unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist.” -James Baldwin   🔥 Soulful …

People tend to treat Black women like our empathy is a faucet that you can turn on and off at will. When it doesn’t work they actually complain like we …

It is never about who wears what hairstyle. Or who wore it first. That’s about choice and style. The question is who is making change so that everyone can wear …

Political parties in the U.S. don’t seem to hear themselves. To many women, their voices aren’t raised for our dignity, our safety, or our futures. Instead, they shout about what …

When an actor or entertainer says they do not want to engage in certain kinds of scenes—intimate, violent, or otherwise—that boundary deserves respect. Man or woman. Period. Too often, instead …

If females were the majority of mass shooters, the world would treat it very differently. There would be no long delays in public debate, no endless detours about “sexual identity” …